No idea if dude will be there or not
I do want to talk to her about this
Debating whether to bring it up tonight or wait until after tomorrow

I was gone for 2 weeks and got back a couple of days ago
So everything right now is honeymoon lovey dovey

But on the flight back home
I had a dream that I was on the phone with her
We were both outside, talking normally
and the call started breaking up
me: hello? hello?
her: *calls out dude's name like trying to get his attention*

I wake up

I'm in the plane like WTF? No subconscious Freudian interpretation needed on that one

We've had our rough patches (the Army thing, which is DOA now that she has a banking job)

I can see the scenario plain as day:

She shows up at this new gig, new faces, new scene, new training class
everyone is happy to be there, best behavior, attractive men and women everywhere
Get assigned to groups, everyone intros themselves, all smiles
"OMG, we have such and such in common!"
Cliques form, good vibes all around, numbers are exchanged for the group chat

Meanwhile at home, it's not all sweet
there's been arguments, drama, tears, etc
We love each other, we wanna make it work, we talk clearly and decide to stay together

Weeks go by at work
dude is courteous, professional, etc etc
work texts are exchanged
lunches
etc etc
you know the rest