me neither.

But sometimes man...

Could they handle the rejection?

man I'm not pressed at my age.

We got it in hella when we were younger.

I like sleep...and if I'm sleepy she's SOL.

Only time I was too tired was when I worked 3rd shift

That was a real problem.

>Could they handle the rejection?

its rare, but its happened more than once.

Handle rejection? Probably, though I'm sure there would at least be some initial confusion.

And yes, dat rejection steez is VERY REAL!

They can't handle dat shit and get firey, all in they feelz over dat.

True story:
Around this time last year, Babydoll called me up on some, "Where you at right now? I wanna come drop dis pussy off to you!"

But I was genuine busy hustlin, so I rainchecked it. Babydoll went full feelz and had a *Ventpacolypse about it on Facebook/Instagram.

I lightweight had ta put her on time-out over dat shit.

handle that $hit in-house LMAO

I'm sayin,...
It was on some full-fledge Oprah bookclub type shit.

Rare, but sometimes I'm just not feeling it at the moment, or working on something. Usually, she manages to change my mind tho.

>Rare, but sometimes I'm just not feeling it at the moment, or
>working on something. Usually, she manages to change my mind
>tho.

90% of the time she convinces me pretty quickly lol. But there have been a few times where I've been just exhausted, or full as hell off a huge meal or something ... and just couldn't even more nevermind try and perform.

So it's happened, more than once. But not often at all.

but actually getting a c’mon baby and I’m like “nah, I’m tired”

Hell nah.

I’m like Robin Harris in DTRT

Ain’t never too hot, too cold or too tired... for fuckin’

I've got to think it's taking care of business on your own, then she pops up like 2 minutes later wanting something, and you've just got to be like "too late *shrug*" Or just try and power through, I guess. This has never happened to me, but it has been in the back of my mind.

*Outside of like, no longer being in love with them/imminently about to leave them/something dark.

I went ahead and gave her what she wanted, but I had literally just busted before coming up to bed and couldn't bust again. She did though, so all good. I almost passed, but I didn't wanna explain why so I just went with it Haha

and I was working, listening to a podcast

and one of the hosts had just, kinda out of nowhere, spent about 45 minutes detailing both of the times she had abortions.

I couldn't mentally get into anything at that particular moment.

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

I can hear it now.

"Oh you gettin it somewhere else?"

Plus I ain’t one to pass up some booty.

You gotta pick your battles, and if fuckin gets me out of a battle then its win win.

That being said, we clearly have to operate on a different set of rules than they do. I'm not saying all of them would be upset, but I'm willing to bet the majority would.

wife and I are strivers so most days I'm tired as fuck after a long day and then coming home to do house stuff...90% of the time it's work all the way up until bed time and by that point we just collapse into a pile of sleep.

If she makes a move do you say nah or do your duty?

starting with "what you thinking about doing?"

if the answer is "about to hit these damn sheets and sleep" then thats the signal.

I literally have no more energy to think about sex with where life has been.

j/k

But one of the times I did it wife was very upset, cuz she felt I was rejecting her totally.

I was dead tired and just not at all in the mood.

I'm like look either you gonna get SO with 2 kids dick when I'm not dead tired or you gonna get some half sleep dick that I'm gonna have to make up for.

she then whipped out her vibrator right next to me while I was sleeping and I swear she was being *extra* with it.

So I woke up and gave her some dick somewhere in the middle. That shit only worked three times though

>I'm like look either you gonna get SO with 2 kids dick when
>I'm not dead tired or you gonna get some half sleep dick that
>I'm gonna have to make up for.

lmao

.

if we mad or been beefin? i gotta decline...cant/wont do mad sex. we gotta get to the bottom of whatever the issue is or im not feelin it. if im tired as hell, might gotta decline. and yes, ive gotten the you must be gettin it somewhere else comment, but im always in place, and always on time so i can break that argument down REAL quick.

but then on the other hand, its happened on her end too, where shes tired or not in the mood and i dont press it, so hey its all fair in my book. have you ever been turned down because shes tired etc? if the answer is no then i better see your argument. if the answer is yes then hey she should understand thats just how it goes sometimes. i tip my hat to u tho fam thats a pretty impressive stat

He’s lying.

I've discussed it here over the years (long ago...my kid is 14 now), but we had trouble getting and staying pregnant. We were doing all the tricks, one of which was keeping track of her cycle, body temperature...etc.

At first it was cool...we were getting it in constantly. After a while though it felt like work. A few times I was totally unable to get shall we say "inspired." That led to a whole different set of issues.

We had to step back and relax and not try so hard...and guess what...




On a different note...

Neither the wife or i are fans of running the red light. But occasionally she's wanted to get it popping during her cycle. I have wanted to decline, but I fear the repercussions, so I soldiered on.

Nahmeanz,
She red-lightin but still tryna get it crackin but
yo vampire game ain't really tight like dat, just break out the KY
and see what dat starfish talkin bout.


Win-win.

Never would have have happened 10 years ago.

As you get old, men have sex so they can have mental images for them to Jack off too later on.

I've had sex a number of times when I didn't REALLY want to at the moment tho

gotta keep up and let her know no nigga can outfreak me.

she never turns me down. least i could do is match her effort.

Cuz I’m ALWAYS down


Put me in, coach

Sometimes still do. She is a morning person and im a night owl. But shit life happens.

if you miss that launch window, the mission gets scrapped and maybe we try again tomorrow if the conditions are within acceptable parameters.

*talking nasty? I guess we now understand what women have always had to go through..

Multiple times. And she doesn't handle it well at all.

Many reasons. More than likely I'm too tired as I work 2 jobs and do a lot with our son. She got pissed and we had to have "a talk" (aka a bitch about me session). After she laid out what her grand plans are and what she wants to do and how much I hurt her by turning her down, I asked her this: You can either have the dick or the money. Which one is more important?

She shut up real fast after that.

More often than naught I turn it down because SHE's trying to be a good soldier. She'll have back problems, severe headaches and stomach aches and want to mess around but I can tell she's done. Plus, what I look like blowing the back out of my wife with a herniated disc? I might get manslaughter

Time and place I tell her. She's come around

And one time I asked her so it's only a problem when I don't want to do it, but when you turn me down I gotta take it on the chin? (Again, no response)

Ahhh the joys of marriage

We turn them down and they act like we hate every part of their being.

Thank you men for showing up and saying that sex has its place in a relationship.

As a woman who really wanted to have sex in a marriage, I realize it isn't how I imagined in my head.

The men who I have had natural easily sexual attraction, sex is never a big deal. We figure it out and always meet each other's needs.

The men who I had a great relationship but cultivated sexual attraction takes more work to weave sex into our daily lives.

https://imgur.com/x9diu23

But yes. I was between jobs at the time, and I couldn't focus on fucking when I didn't know when my next check was coming. Just the provider in me, I guess.
She didn't handle it well at all. She had a high sex drive and was on some "BUT YOU A MAN!" shit lol. She was also mad because it was a fairly new relationship. She made me wait, so when this happened, we'd only had sex once... which only frustrated her more because she really enjoyed it and now I wasn't in the mood. We were in our early 20's and all, but she had no understanding. Our break up started right there.

it last longer and i'm more satisfied beating a game than beating it up.

Anyways for months/year I was talking about how I didn't have time to decipher her cryptic, non-direct, passive, time limited, vague speak meant. Say what you want and mean. So of course sex was a part of it.

Needless to say it that wasn't happening. So I decided to act and speak the same (imma do you how you do me) to make the point clear. Sex rejection was the first on the see how it feels list.

Bruh. This woman just about went crazy. I didn't love her. I was being difficult. I kept changing my mind. I'd lost interest in her. I didn't want her or make her feel sexy etc.

After a couple of weeks of mimicking her I told her what was up. Livid. She was absolutely livid for damn near a couple of months.

Bruh one little rejection was like knife to the heart and back at the same time. I was like bih you drop sex rejections like old ladies giving out peppermints at church.

She gets turned down on the reg.

She don't feel no way. Who wants dead tired dick?