Mo'Nique: 'We Must Allow Black Men To Have Side Chicks'

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The popular female comedian Mo'Nique is coming under fire - for telling Black women at her show to allow their husbands and boyfriends to have side chicks.

And the usually funny Mo'Nique wasn't joking when she gave women the unusual relationship advice.

During the show, Mo'Nique started off talking about how much she loves Black men. Monique frequently told the mostly female audience that, "We need to love our brothers and support our brothers."

Then her discussion turned bizarre. Mon'Nique told the Black women in the audience to allow their men to have side chicks. According to Mo'Nique, requiring a Black man to be monogamous came out of White supremacy.


Listen to one of the audience members, blogger Paris Milan, explain Mo'Niques bizarre ideology (it begins at 6:50):


Monique, 52 is a legendary actress and comedian. She first gained fame as a member of the Queens Of Comedy, as well as her role as Nicole "Nikki" Parker in the UPN series The Parkers while making a name as a stand-up comedian hosting a variety of venues, including Showtime at the Apollo. Mo'Nique transitioned to film with roles in such films as Phat Girlz (2006) and Welcome Home Roscoe Jenkins (2008). In 2002, she, along with several other female comedians, earned a Grammy Award nomination for Best Comedy Album.


In 2009, she received critical praise for her role as the abusive Mary Lee Johnston in the film Precious and won numerous awards, including the Academy Award for Best Supporting Actress. She hosted The Mo'Nique Show, a late-night talk show that premiered in 2009 on BET; it was cancelled in 2011. In 2015, she received rave reviews for her performance as Ma Rainey in the HBO biopic Bessie and earned a Primetime Emmy Award nomination.

Anything else is just extra ass energy
They got cam girls, 1080p, and good lube now. All can be had for less time, money, and talking than a whole other relationship.
Her hurt

some dudes are balling enough to pay for their side chick's apartment, car, etc...

sometimes all you can do is that 2 for $20 at Applebee's lol

then some side chicks will treat YOU

some people see their side chicks every day(at work) some only get to see them once a month or longer


>Anything else is just extra ass energy
>They got cam girls, 1080p, and good lube now. All can be had
>for less time, money, and talking than a whole other
>relationship.
>Her hurt
>

You may put more direct money in your pocket but car wear and tear, gas, loss of sleep, physical demands, inhaling fumes, stress, risk of accident, risk of insurance premiums hikes, risk of tickets, physical safety, time spent cleaning, tires life reduction ... all add up.

Balancing a whole other human being.
But I feel as if by the time it got to THAT point me and her would be completely done
Meanwhile, unlike job hunting which is “its easier to find a new job when you already have one” you’re not in the same plane
Finding another woman when you already have one severely limits where you’d find the new one or ways that relationship could build.

monique telling someone something about side chicks

please identify yourself so I can discard you.

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> monique telling someone something about side chicks
>
>please identify yourself so I can discard you.
>
>www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

Buddy. it's buddy.

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Side chicks ain't for every dude... gotta be handling business, be honest and an overall live dude. Even with that, most women just ain't trying to share. Every time I've brought up having a side chick with a girlfriend, they just turn up themselves and make sure there isn't any energy for thinking about other women.

Of course I’m joking but aren’t you supposed to never bring her up if she is a legit side chick?

She supposed to be a ghost.

Ehh. I’d rather hear the actual sound bite than a summary.

oh NOW you wanna say some $hit that makes sense

I know my uncle had a side chick, and my aunt was grateful someone else catered to his needy and complaining ass! LMAO

The poor side chick died of cancer, my aunt told my uncle, "You betta show up at that funeral after all the drama you caused."

As men age and relationship passion fades, I really don't think women care as much about his exploits unless it is fucking up the money, the kids or the home.

Go ahead and get you some passionate pussy. Just respect the main woman. When the side piece disrespects the main, that's where the problems begin.

They aren’t getting divorced.

Wife ain’t doing all that freaky shit

Husband ain’t leaving the wife because he knows damn well the side piece can’t cook, clean or care about his ass long term cause she got another nigga her age.

and most side pieces don’t want any parts of that man full time.

My dad used to tell me all the scoop on these old ass people back home who had side pieces and relationships on the side. These are my friends parents who ain’t getting divorced and just out here trying to make it past forever

One dude left his wife for a younger side chick. As soon as he got laid off from the gig? She left him ass and kicked him out her crib. Couldn’t go back home. My dad was like.. “dumb nigga thought she was with him for the dick”

My girl sometimes lets me know the Hollywood gossip and I could have sworn she said that this divorce was a train wreck.

Her and the current hubby have an open marriage.

Like Steve Harvey, I really wish folks would stop giving her a platform. I want her to go back to acting.

at least partially.

You're welcome. LMAO.

did she actually say this? mto aint the most reliable source and that video is of someone else. admittedly, I didn't watch much of it.

i refuse to be in a relationship with anyone ever again that demands monogamy.

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you can have all those without monogamy and even without sex.

you can also have different kinds relationships with different people, at different levels...not all have to include sex either

Like you can do whatever you want that is honest and ethical to all involved. Y'all just need to open your minds and hearts and TALK to people.

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>you can have all those without monogamy and even without
>sex.
>
>you can also have different kinds relationships with different
>people, at different levels...not all have to include sex
>either
>
>Like you can do whatever you want that is honest and ethical
>to all involved. Y'all just need to open your minds and hearts
>and TALK to people.
>
>d


No point in having a monogamous relationship without sex. That is like brother or sister status. True you can have relationships that aren’t centered around sex, but in reality when people are speaking about having side pieces then almost always sex is involved. Most people won’t be honest though. People do agree to open relationships and I think that in the beginning you should have that format to see if that person is right for you or you may have interest in someone else before you decide to get serious with that person.

I promise that wouldn't end well.

like. my understanding, multiple wives was necessary to build empires. niggas ain’t trying to do that shit anymore, right?

https://www.cheatsheet.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/FOX-Empire-1024x800.jpg

>like. my understanding, multiple wives was necessary to build
>empires. niggas ain’t trying to do that shit anymore, right?
>
>

Exactly... bros are just trying to have a spot to go when they get thrown out of their crib for the BS.

In their relationships... Being in a loving relationship is just too boring for some people.

Having a sidechick isn't tantamount to being without a loving relationship.

Love doesn't equal monogamy at all.

Love is love.

Monogamy is monogamy.

They are not mutually exclusive.

Thus, one can be in a loving relationship and entertain multiple partners accordingly.

Muthafukkaz is naive and brainwashed.

Be easy with the judgement and hyperbole. I agree non-monogamy and loving relationships can coexist but all of the extra name-calling is silly.

We also have to do away with the derogatory ass language. Side chick? Really? That language is so loaded there's no wonder people reflexively dismiss it.

>Having a sidechick isn't tantamount to being without a loving
>relationship.
>
>Love doesn't equal monogamy at all.
>
>Love is love.
>
>Monogamy is monogamy.
>
>They are not mutually exclusive.
>
>Thus, one can be in a loving relationship and entertain
>multiple partners accordingly.
>
>Muthafukkaz is naive and brainwashed.

First off,...
You may wanna back up off the condescending tone, Bruh.

>>Be easy with the judgement and hyperbole. I agree non-monogamy and loving relationships can coexist but all of the extra name-calling is silly.<<

2nd off,...
Sun, I ain't name-call nobody. I said, "Muthafukkaz is naive and brainwashed".

-Naive is an adjective(a descriptive word): This means no name-calling took place.

-Brainwashed is an adjective(a descriptive word): This means no name-calling took place.

So, be right and exact before you hit the reply button.

Peace...

Got it. Carry on.

Ok got it.

Lmao at being a side chick and trying to have a legit title.

You ain’t the main chick... you the side chick

Chick on the side.

You ain’t the big piece of chicken

You a hush puppy

Like... sometimes I think you're redeemable, but then... you show up.

And LOL @ you thinking you know anything about me.

A jump off is like a hush puppy, a mistress is a good large side, maybe even dark meat.

>You ain’t the big piece of chicken
>
>You a hush puppy
>
>

I think it’s very human to want something new and exciting. I disagree that it equates to wanting drama, in fact that’s one of the reasons that I don’t do it.