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Poll question: What’s the average amount of sexual partners a 40 year old would have...

Poll result (25 votes) 1 (1 votes) Vote 2-10 (5 votes) Vote 10-20 (11 votes) Vote 20-25 (2 votes) Vote 25-30 (5 votes) Vote 30-40 (1 votes) Vote

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I'm betting Men on average will have a higher Count than Women



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Culturally - WORLDWIDE, Men will have more sexual partners than women. So, it's not about what you think "Should Be", it's about what it and the data that you want. Right?


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“Science without religion is lame, religion without science is blind.” ~ Albert Einstein

"I cannot see how nature could have created itself. Only a supernatural force that is outside of space and time could have done that. ~ Francis Collins

it doesn't matter.

But you probably are correct that men's distribution is probably centered higher than women's is, which is interesting, but it's not what she asked.

>it doesn't matter.
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>But you probably are correct that men's distribution is
>probably centered higher than women's is, which is
>interesting, but it's not what she asked.

Men will skew this poll, especially since there are more men on this site. And our culture promotes the sex partner count as a measure of manhood



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“Science without religion is lame, religion without science is blind.” ~ Albert Einstein

"I cannot see how nature could have created itself. Only a supernatural force that is outside of space and time could have done that. ~ Francis Collins

Overall, I'd put good money that the average woman has more sexual partners than men. There are way more grown-up male virgins than female. Internet loves to clown these dudes too, so you know what I'm talking about.

...it will be pretty much the same, right?

If we remove the top/bottom 10% then I think we'd have some numbers that show a little more.

>Overall, I'd put good money that the average woman has more
>sexual partners than men.

Just cause it's ostensibly easier to get sex as a woman than a man, your average woman is also pickier and more prone to go without rather than just lay with some loser. And women lie about their sex lives just like guys do, so they can seem cool and experienced around their peers. They just don't tend to clown each other about it. They will call each other sluts though.


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"To Each His Reach"

but.....

Fuck aliens.

That's about the "women are more selective" bit.

I retracted what I said about AVERAGE number (for heterosexuals), since everything would average out the same anyway since it takes two to tango.

Alot of people have been out of the game since their mid 20s and can count their sexual partners on one hand.

Sorry, I'm just hype for the game so I had to do it

Ever married? In a long term relationship for several years?

Someone who got married younger/in a serious LTR through most of their 20's is going to look different from someone who was single the whole time.

that deep lol...

>Ever married? In a long term relationship for several years?
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>Someone who got married younger/in a serious LTR through most
>of their 20's is going to look different from someone who was
>single the whole time.

Either she'll tell you a lie, and you still won't know
or if she tells you the truth
you might not have wanted to hear it in the first place

(c) Malcolm X

So glad I read the autobio at 18 and learnt that lesson EARLY

aka

Just be glad you in there, now.
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"To Each His Reach"

but.....

Fuck aliens.

It is what it is, and I don't lie to myself. I've found it works out much better this way. I assume bad shit anyway, so it's usually much tamer that what I imagine.

How are y'all gonna grow with each other sexually if y'all aren't even being honest?

>Either she'll tell you a lie, and you still won't know
>or if she tells you the truth
>you might not have wanted to hear it in the first place
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>(c) Malcolm X

basically lol

40 and single in the city?
40 and single in small city?
40 and single in suburbs?

40 and married?

40 and....you get the point.

but it says something to the effect of...:

"I'm too old to beg for pussy, either give me some or sell me some, I'm just trying to fuck!"

I haven't since I was probably in my early 20's, and even that feels like it was too old to care about it.

Never asked. Anything before me mostly didn’t matter as long as she had no kids.

Ended up marrying someone with no experience besides me.

It's something like 3-to-8.

A few years back, I read that for men, the lifetime average was between 7-10 and for women it was like 3-6.

And women are minimizing theirs.

Still suggests the actual average is in that one digit range.

in this day and age? wow.

https://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2018/02/08/why-young-americans-having-less-sex-216953

I read another article about social media and smartphone addiction and how the current generation of high school kids are staying home all weekend and spend their free time on their phones in their rooms. If I'm a parent of one of those kids, I'd almost prefer my kid to out partying and living life and learning lessons and experiencing human emotions.

>I read another article about social media and smartphone
>addiction and how the current generation of high school kids
>are staying home all weekend and spend their free time on
>their phones in their rooms. If I'm a parent of one of those
>kids, I'd almost prefer my kid to out partying and living life
>and learning lessons and experiencing human emotions.

We keep him in sports and activities. Given his druthers he'd probably rather be online playing games, or watching YouTube videos of people playing video games.

Problem is...his peers are not as socially active. It's a chore to get him together with friends. I have to drive him places...set stuff up. When I was his age, I just walked out the door.

There's a little girl he digs in his art class. I asked him what's up with that, and whether he's talked to her. He said she has a boyfriend. I told him tough break, then he said, "He lives on Illinois (we live in the ATL)." "Oh, so he moved away?" "No, they've never met in person...just online."

What fresh Hell is this? Is that where we are now?

"Son, you're still in the game..." "Really...?" "Really."

...this generation

Have a 12yo and he is shaping up like this. Good on you to goad your son to some light grime; I can almost hear you instigating him and and his hormones.

Those stats are us.

People ain't fucking as much as people who fucking think other people are fucking.

For some reason I think rural and church folks are skewing the numbers.. and church folk be lying.

During my dating years, on two separate occasions, that question led to some major drama. First time, my numbers were higher than hers and she could never wrap her mind around it, eventually causing her to start clowning. Second time, her numbers were radically higher than mine, causing me to inflate my numbers (immature move, I know), and feel some kind of way. That led to me making some out of pocket remarks, and getting kicked to the curb.

By the time I met my wife, I was straight "Don't ask, don't tell." That has served me well to this day.

...single digits you'd probability remember the names as well as the numbers ...but yeah, NEVER as these questions if it's someone you are actually in a good relationship with

https://youtu.be/xOkI2CmD2D8

Nine Months. Those nine months she was also pregnant


She never felt a ways about sex. Me I feel attached somewhat so I’m picky. But I also know a girl that’s 25 that’s only been with one guy.
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Character? Promiscuity? Morals?

For example, I'll admit I'm in the yellow, and so is my old roommate. The difference is that he put his numbers up during college and a few years after, until he got married in his mid 20's. I put those same numbers up, but from college until I got married in my mid-30's.

Is there a difference?

It all comes down to how a person feels about their sexual activity. I can honestly say that I’m just now thoroughly enjoying sex. I found a partner that just does it for me. I have never had that before. Not sure if that’s a good or bad thing. I mean it’s great but if we stop and I have to find another partner statistically I won’t be as satisfied as I am now. Lol. I also could be even more satisfied. Communication plays a huge role and so does chemistry.

But that’s just me tho 🤷🏽‍♀️
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.... someone has slept with so I'm confused about this question.