I’m experiencing very mixed feelings.

Never the person to go “out” or drink, I struggled trying to figure out what I should do to celebrate this milestone. I fail at planning things, but my family also always forgets about me lol so I had to just think about just doing something for myself.

I kept it simple and did something that’s actually worth it - I gotta 2 HOUR massage!! Laaawd!!! I’m also trying to keep the practice of “saying no”. I’ve gone thru so much partially because of my people-pleasing nature. I don’t want to sacrifice my wellbeing any longer... it’s hard, honestly.

Oh!! And on the day, my dad and I hung out at the Grammy Museum in Newark.

So, aside from all of that, I’d like to know how you all celebrated your 25th (if you even celebrate bdays at all) and if you have any life hacks you found out along the way.

During every weekend for the rest of the month, I’ll either be getting massages or simply doing something that brings me peace. I usually stay in because I’m so damn exhausted from work, but I’ve realized that sometimes getting out and doing what I know can be healing is better thank just laying in bed, with the same thoughts circling in my head.


Anything you wanna say, I’m all ears!




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