surround, bully, or threaten someone, and get hurt doing it, its their fault.

Bullying ppl is not something I'll ever tolerate in my kids. Bullies i grew up around were typically the kids whose parents give them a pass. If that happened to my daughter, for trying to corner a little girl and her Mom, im gonna tend to her wounds, but send apologies to the other girl and Mom and tell them im glad they're ok. And my daughter will have to come with me to put that card in the mail. And she's licking the envelope cuz i hate that shit.