>Its time to let him go
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>youre low-key enabling him
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Yeah, that's what's happening - although it's been minimal support - but yes, I have to cut both of them off. I'll likely help the one this time with about $300 and I'm out - and let the other stay for a few more weeks than he's cut off too. If I put a limit on it and stick to it then I'll be fine.

Because this is just people living badly - neither have had an emergency to cause this it's poor decision or just life not working out as well as they'd hoped.

At least they're not alcoholics or drug addicts - I cut those types off in my 20s and haven't picked any up since then.