13255509, LOL !! I actually almost did kinda overlook it but then was like ... Posted by Brew, Wed May-02-18 08:05 PM
... waaaaaiitttt a second. Haha.
>Sigh. I was hoping I'd be able to skate by this (*shakes fist >at you*). But...here goes. Here is where I, >soulpsychodelicyde, raises her hand and admits that she has a >blind spot when it comes to sexually predatory behavior. It is >one of those behaviors for which I struggle to muster up any >empathy at all and see the world in the darkest shades of >black, and the brightest shades of white. Grays do not exist. >It is a blind/weak spot for me and I own that. > >I'll also say that predatory behavior doesn't automatically >mean mental illness. But I digress... your point is well taken >but yeah... it's a blindspot for me.
Anyway, I hear you ... we all have blind spots. Shit, maybe mental illness is one of mine to a certain extent ? At the very least I still have a lot to learn. So with that said, thank you for the discussion.
And of course predatory behavior doesn't automatically mean mental illness. Neither does ... well, really any behavior IMO.
>I'm not. I'm saying that we've always said he's nuts/mentally >ill. But the narrative changes when that behavior impacts us >vs. him/themselves/someone we don't like.
Word OK. I feel like that's kinda normal and natural right .. like people tend to only react to things that effect them ? Either way tho I get what you're saying now.
>Who says I'm not outraged? Who says anything about excusing >behavior? I think I was pretty clear that I was/am BIG mad and >that he should be checked swiftly and clearly (shouts to >Van...again). But I'm also truly sad that we're watching (what >I believe to be) the mental breakdown of one of our truly >great artists. I'd like for people to also feel sad and not >just 'fuck Ye' about it. I have room to feel both on this >issue. I wish others did, too.
Got it. You have been clear, I've just been responding while simultaneously scrambling at work and at home to prepare for a trip so my bad for kinda overlooking when you said that at the beginning as we've gone on here.
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