that feeling one gets when they see a hot guy/ girl
I would never ever want to lose that feeling if we were to hooked up.

I had a neighbor lady back home that talked a lot about was her husband - how she couldn’t wait to get home to him. he was a hardworking dude. Id see him outside often taking care of their home. They seem happy...

I forget her name tho...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ujXr4kDYho

I hope he is ready

the last lover said he couldn’t match my intensity
called himself a coward.
imagine that, Leg’s...

I’m in no hurry tho - just in love with being in love..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=soDZBW-1P04

...rootin' for you

.. :-)

apparently he left her alone at his place
she found a drawer full of the other woman’s things
panties
bras
and such

said she threw it in the dumpster outside his home

I finished a whole bottle of wine talking to her on the phone
drunks

now what he gonna tell that woman?
lol

this guy is sloppy or maybe he’s being intentional
we don’t know
cuz he don’t talk about it

y’all stay tuned...

I mean, that is amazingly sloppy. Dude knew she'd look, maybe?

once the cheating door is open...anything goes.

like. The one time I found myself driving past the other woman’s house
she goes, “I would never do no shit like that”

me: “yeah. I thought that too but, never say what you wont do”

she’s the only person I ever told that
now y’all...

or this woman is so hurt she is seeing her own shit and don't even know it?

his jump off left shit and he didn't know it. Sometimes women "leave or forget" stuff on purpose

or maybe it was his trophy drawer that he had for years...

who knows..lol

Bottoms up....and the devil laughs..




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she sure they weren't his?

(a whole drawer full??!??! yeesh)

I’m about to tell him it’s inappropriate but I’m afraid of making him uncomfortable. Then
the other day a lady called me his work wife.

we talk in the break room but that’s about it....

or

woman, I would eat you up if I wasn't married?

well. not exactly eat you up but you’re lucky I’m married. I’m should have been addressed it. he throws me off guard tho...

Seeing if you bite.

Could be harmless but if you wake up at 3AM in a cold sweat from one of these dreams???

it's just as appropriate here

"my observation: women, when running hot (read: are feeling you) they will give you aburd levels of the benefit of the doubt and tolerate a WHOLE lotta foolishness. all that ride-or-die, us against the world bonnie and clyde, TRY-to-be-your-superwoman (this steeze here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Q0P94wyBYk)

to me, there is nothing a purely beautiful in nature as a woman in love"

what you are speaking of in the OP is exactly akin to what I mean

I want to be a comfort to my friend with the cheating lover so I’m forced to be honest and open up about myself. Like. why it took me three years to leave a relationship I knew wasn’t going to work. when I asked her to evaluate why she won’t let go (cuz she still blaming he won’t let her) only thing she came up with is sexual chemistry. For me, it was his fame....

whatever your (and her) basis, you were THERE

it's might not have lasted

but you were there

and I bet it was beautiful to behold

the completion of my response the other day was

"BUT...

if she turns on you. its your worst nightmare.

you will get one of three options:
1. she will leave and burn it all to the ground on the way out (thin line between love and hate). this is what produces the fruit exemplified by infinite "woman scorned" tales like Waiting to Exhale (Angela Basset burning up clothes and cars in lingerie) or You Better Think (Aretha in Blues Brothers)
2. she will stay, but not give you more than one iota of the bare minimum of her anything - until she finds a better option and bounces or fed up enough that option one kicks in (she'll keep you around for whatever value you might have - no need to be alone or broke, but applications are officially being taken)
3. she will leave with the blood-oath-to-self commitment to make the rest of your days a living hell because "you ain't @#$%^&" (despite the fact that she actually WAS with you for whatever period - this is always explained as having been tricked)"

I realize now, I left out an option:

"she will turn inward and go to the dark place of guilt/shame. this is dangerous to herself, and to the next guy who will have to help her heal - sometimes as the bearer of a cup that was poured before he got there; now having to help rekindle a deadened sense of hope, wonder, faith, and trust"

i read what you type, and I too hope you find the love you seek

The difference is we’re not stickick around out of love
being “there” doesn’t equate love
isn’t love...it’s selfishness
in my own example it was the darkest period of my life...

Nothing beautiful about that Selah

>The difference is we’re not stickick around out of love
>being “there” doesn’t equate love
>isn’t love...it’s selfishness

sounds like the aftermath (#2 in the list i'd venture)

>in my own example it was the darkest period of my life...

sorry to hear that. i don't know your situation, but I do know my darkest days and how tied they were to love gone sour

>Nothing beautiful about that Selah

you misunderstood my point then if you think I was saying it was. the beautiful part I was referring to is love when it has yet to be tainted by "real life"

that love that has a woman writing her name as though she's married to practice the signature she wants on the marriage certificate

that love that will have a woman making pies and cutting letters out of crust to spell the dude's name

writing poems and whatnot

the kind of love that will have her sing for you on your birthday knowing damn well she can't hit a note

(all things I have witnessed)

there is a sparkle in a woman's eye when she is like that

its beautiful

that is what I thought of

*that* kind of love (the "high" of it)

guys have a version too

I define/describe it as "feeling big" (as in: she makes me feel big. like I'm bulletproof and can do anything)

... :-)

?

sadly my ability to link references isn't what it once was

hell...

i cant remember SATURDAY much less dialog from a movie I haven't seen since the 1st week the dvd came out

(is THAT where your name comes from)?

up till just now you name reminded me of a mix of "oaktown 3-5-7" (the rap group of MC Hammer's female backup dancers_ and "Trin-i-Tee 5:7" (a gospel group)

so much that i "hear" your name in my head as "trinity 44:4"