literally all the time.

I'm not making a leap in saying that woman considers the real danger or retaliation - from revenge porn to abuse, to yes death - just for refusing sexual advances or suspending action. It is not an easy thing to play out.

Again, can you name examples in which society has demonstrated or scripted how this is supposed to play out that ends favorably for a woman?

I can for a man, not so much for any other iteration of humanity. She would be rude, or a prude, or manipulative, or fucked up, or any other thing under the sun.