that's the only solution

"how about not being a pussy hound and just letting it happen organically?" requires too much common sense and decency

these guys have to flat out say "we're going back to my place to fuck", a statement that puts everything on the table and doesnt amount to sexual harassment

of course women always have the right to agree then back out, at which point the man has to completely stop

but "he made verbal sexual advances too soon" sounds way less worse than physically going for it and just assuming she's game