especially as a single woman. like music...friendships help.

so glad it's Friday...

when my son was late picking me up this morning. I called screaming at him while standing in front of my apartment. He goes, "mom. did you forget you have the car?" I hung up on him. lol.

the party is tomorrow and my spread is lovely.

have a wonderful weekend...

Peace hoes (c) Bin

and lmao:


>when my son was late picking me up this morning. I called
>screaming at him while standing in front of my apartment. He
>goes, "mom. did you forget you have the car?" I hung up on
>him. lol.

or hitting that blunt too hard.

my crazy is all natural :-)

yeah. all the years I did smoke lol

and what's that spread lookin' like?

four ladies and no men
I'll post a pic to IG but I'm not sure it'll do it justice
cause you need to experience it...

Pink & floral

I'm doing an appetizer layout.

upon entering- I'm handing out lime vodka shooters in a miniature mason jar
then peach sangrias
and other wines once that's gone

Olives stuffed with bleu cheese
Champagne cheese
cheese w/ leeks
all served on an appetizer spoon

saucy Asia meatballs

goat cheese stuffed sweet peppers

basic garden salad

A mixture of fruit, cherries, strawberries, blueberries and pineapples

pink popcorn :-)

pink and white cupcakes...

okp playlist
and a book of questions...

Hope it all goes well, Trin.

and gassy.

besides, everyone won't/don't eat every sample. you know black folks, "I don't eat that"...

I forgot...

pesto Greek dip
chips and salsa
plus I'm giving them gifts bag - filled with girly stuff.

I think that's it, LOL

and a fruit tray w/cantaloupe and ripe mango.

that shit changed my life.

>especially as a single woman. like music...friendships help.
>
>so glad it's Friday...
>
>when my son was late picking me up this morning. I called
>screaming at him while standing in front of my apartment. He
>goes, "mom. did you forget you have the car?" I hung up on
>him. lol.
>
>the party is tomorrow and my spread is lovely.
>
>have a wonderful weekend...
>
>Peace hoes (c) Bin
>
>

ahh....
reminiscing about the OKP days of yore when that statement would have been grounds for a platinum plated post....

>ahh....
>reminiscing about the OKP days of yore when that statement
>would have been grounds for a platinum plated post....
>
>

might be over with tho. *shrug*

this has been a long ass week.

I really need some 'me' time.

maybe more.

It's cool tho.

apologizing: does not always mean you're wrong and the other person is right; it just means you value your relationship more than your ego.

bruh said he was only 'numb' and only 'hearing me out' on the strength of a mutual friend, but WE got longer history.


sometimes you just outgrow cats.

Hope everything comes off in the fashion as which you've prepared.

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When a mofo kirk-out
and somebody hold dat mirror up, aint nowhere else ta go.

one person was a no call...no show. I'm pretty pissed about that. overall, it was fun.

Only thing, folks couldn't get wasted because they lived so far away. I drank enough for everyone tho, LOL

woke up with a hangover...

I asked God to give me the heart to forgive him. I didn't realize I had asked it because I chuckled like, "did I just ask you that?"
yeah I did!

glad your party went well. hope you didn't embarrass yourself with all the drankin' Haha.

after all the pain...
you bums still have me messed up.

I've never wanted to forgive him, rather forget. This is a huge step for me and I'm not even sure how it came about.

You bastards are ruining it for me.

how is that ruining it for you? i applaud your efforts in forgiveness, but if you don't now move forward it's all for naught.

it's insulting.
I'm sharing.
I know what I have and need to do..

i certainly am/was not trying to insult you, sorry it was received that way. stay up, Trin.

its my biggest disappointment, that's why I'm so sensitive about it. What I'm sharing is not something I do offline. I know exactly what I need to do...I just don't wanna.

forgiving him is huge for me....

then try to play sensitive..

nah yo

not on my watch j/k

.

I farted in front of them because I was laughing so hard. It wasn't the funky kind...one of those airy joint LOL

trying to get a feel for exactly how hilarious this was. haha

i was in Brooklyn having dinner with my bro, his girlfriend and some of their friends i'd never met one NYE in my bro's apartment. i was sitting on a wooden chair and tried to sneak one out. man, that thing ripped off the chair with so much noise and vigor. i couldn't stop laughing about it.

sitting on wooden steps. The reverb made all my friends run away in terror. I had no idea no idea it would sound like that.

Recently my mother in law was babysitting for us, we were all chilling and I got too comfortable and let it rip. I was almost embarrassed but it's my house so I just apologized and laughed.

Everybody either just shakes their head or ignores it at this point. Haha

two shots
back to back...
it was the joke for the rest of the evening lol.

I told them, "look. I'm an old woman"

single folks or to married folks?

Being married I value my friendships even more. When I was single I had times where I had no friends and I was perfectly find doing things alone.

Married is something different because you need an outlet that isn't your spouse.

need some time away from the spouse/family.

I think of it in terms of being lonely..

ideally, in marriage there's someone to support you. If youre without family and friends...there's no one to support you when things fall down.

I also view it from having outside interest tho. even in the most supportive marriage, it makes sense to me to have something that's yours, but not tied to your spouse.

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