i was with a Jehovah's Witness for some time. we were definitely headed for a collision course with that conversation because our relationship was completely secret from her family and many of her friends (a couple of her CLOSE friends knew about me). now, she was violating basically all the JW tenets by being with me, fucking me, drinking with me, etc etc etc but we were getting more serious to the point where if it was gonna continue she was gonna HAVE to ask me become a JW or she was going to have be disfellowed (which means you're a pariah in the eyes of the church and your family and friends can't speak to and associate with you as I understand the practice).

fortunately, the relationship ended before we got there.