she goes to church, and I don't. She can take the kids though, so i got Sundays to myself!

I don't even go to make her happy anymore. I went once, and the pastor started talking about the first Thanksgiving telling the bullshit version of how the friendly Indians helped the beautiful Christian pilgrims. FUCK ALL OF THAT. I refuse to indluge that level of delusion.

If my wife needs it, and she made some promises to God or whatever, and that makes her life better... she can do all that. I won't criticize. Plus she's from South America, so good luck trying to talk a So. American out of Jesus.

We respect each other enough not to make a big deal out of it either way.