prolly been asked on here a thousand times over but yeah...would ya?

Being a baptist didn't have many rules so I didn't have a lot of objections to doing catholic stuff (except those boring services).

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

I'm thinking something more along the lines of Jehovah's Witness to Mormon or some shit lol

edit:
maybe that ain't even a good example either...they sorta got the same god as well, right?

How do you go from gospel to that garbage ass singing?

i'm an atheist, and that ain't changing, tho i never mind if my gf is religious, and wouldn't be opposed to an occasional church visit to make a woman happy.

I mean you're an atheist wtf does it matter anyways if you fake the funk for the slam dunk?

if a woman wants me to go to church with her EVERY sunday, nah. i can find women who i won't have to fake anything. but if it's some "fake it around my mom and dad" type of thing...

neither of us are about that church life but we will go to each others church when we visit family.

We even had both preachers from our faiths marry us.

we were officially married in my MIL's house because her grandparents and other relatives were married in that house.

Then we had a wedding ceremony on the beach a few months later. My wife went to church with me the first time and immediately asked if my preacher would marry us for our ceremony cause he keeps it real.

my heathen ass doesn't know a Baptist from a Methodist from a Lutheran, etc.


All Christian sects are pretty much the same in my eyes. JayCee on the cross, read the Good Book, etc.


I'm speaking on like a Christian cat dating a Muslim or a Jewish person, etc. Where you REALLY gotta convert.

Methodist feels like Black Catholicism. White fried Chicken. No soul.

When I go my wife's church I'm like "pick up the pace, where is the foot stomp?

>Methodist feels like Black Catholicism. White fried Chicken.
>No soul.
>
>When I go my wife's church I'm like "pick up the pace, where
>is the foot stomp?
>
>
>
>

That's why I found myself a savage heathen.

>That's why I found myself a savage heathen.

they're the best, ain't they?

but I find myself as of late checking for the more pious ladies

need someone to balance out this debaucherous shit i got going on haha

she goes to church, and I don't. She can take the kids though, so i got Sundays to myself!

I don't even go to make her happy anymore. I went once, and the pastor started talking about the first Thanksgiving telling the bullshit version of how the friendly Indians helped the beautiful Christian pilgrims. FUCK ALL OF THAT. I refuse to indluge that level of delusion.

If my wife needs it, and she made some promises to God or whatever, and that makes her life better... she can do all that. I won't criticize. Plus she's from South America, so good luck trying to talk a So. American out of Jesus.

We respect each other enough not to make a big deal out of it either way.

just so u can b with him or her?

nm

I'm gonna say no, because if I was dating someone, inevitably religious beliefs would come up at some point in the early stages of dating. If she's an X and I'm a Y, and we still found a way to make it work, then obviously it wouldn't really be that big of a deal anyway.
So no, I wouldn't convert. Nor would I expect her to.

ionno.. I think converting to a whole different religion is some hoe shit.

Nigga, I love you but how the hell am I gonna put your faith/God before mine?

Always feel like those who do it eventually crack under the pressure and end up cheating with someone from their faith.

I'm talking shit but lets be real, you ain't really about that life if a man or woman can change your religion.

Who do you really worship?

>ionno.. I think converting to a whole different religion is
>some hoe shit.
>
>Nigga, I love you but how the hell am I gonna put your
>faith/God before mine?

exactly. I've had mine all this time.

>>I'm talking shit but lets be real, you ain't really about that
>life if a man or woman can change your religion.
>
>Who do you really worship?


right. It's like saying, I'll worship whoever, just to get laid.


nobody's god is "better" than the next guy's, so I don't see the logic in converting.

obvious faith isn't the problem because it helped shape them into who they were.

I get going and participating and even respecting their religion but asking them to convert or converting because it's "easier" on the marriage seems off.

I guess it's cool if you go and realize this religion speaks to you and then you convert on your own.

>I guess it's cool if you go and realize this religion speaks
>to you and then you convert on your own.
>

Still though, that kinds of seem like you think your religious beliefs are somehow subpar, or inferior to theirs.

(unless they belong to a religion that's less strict than yours, and you like to get it in, LOL)

especially if they had food after the service.

Then I would convert back once football season started cause the sermons are long as hell.

>Who do you really worship?

Who and what

For me to fully convert to my current religion requires me to embrace all of the culture. Embracing the culture means turning my back on, admitting cultural inferiority, attacking my people, or otherwise doing things that lead to my ancestors in the after life being disappointed with me.

With all that said, I am naturally fully converted at least in conversations with people but friction exists within the culture itself. I could not 100 percent embrace someone that was fully in step with the culture because it's quite divisive, offensive, intolerant, and heavily confrontational in a micro aggressive way.

I am unsure if I could convert to Islam for someone I loved. That would be difficult but my situation is very difficult to deal with.

>For me to fully convert to my current religion requires me to
>embrace all of the culture.

>For me to fully convert to my current religion requires me to
>embrace all of the culture. Embracing the culture means
>turning my back on, admitting cultural inferiority, attacking
>my people, or otherwise doing things that lead to my ancestors
>in the after life being disappointed with me.

What religion?

lol

so no

Back in college I had a huge crush on this Guyanese Muslim chick
it was weird cuz she was hijabi but we still talked and hung out on campus (I knew and she knew she not supposed to be talking and hanging out with unrelated males but w.e)
but yeah that was going nowhere so we just drifted apart after a while

Then there was a couple of hardcore saved christian women later on
I went to church with one and apparently that was enough to get the panties soon after
the other one got saved AFTER we got together, and that was rough
led to a real bad break up
How you gonna try to change me when you liked me as I was in the beginning?

FOH

no it's not

the entire premise of all major world religions rests on the afterlife and what happens after we die.

but if you're one to flip religion like that, it's probably not that serious to you.

but i feel you.

i am not joining a religion for anyone. Just like I wouldnt expect her to stop believing to make me happy. You do you and I will do me.

i'm...i'm agnostic pantheist and my wife is christian

our kids will go to church since I went to church but its been agreed that they will have freedom to choose later on in life


Aint no way I'm changing my core ass beliefs for another person.

http://bfy.tw/BpGb

....(I don't subscribe to denominations such as Baptist, Methodist, etc.) and there is no way where I would convert to Islam, Satanism, Buddhism (yeah, I know it's not supposed to be a religion but let's face it, there are those who treat it as such), etc, etc.

I don't even subscribe to supposed faiths that are supposed to be Christian based such as Mormonism, Jehovah's Witnesses, etc. I'm not trying to even deal with the partial or non faiths of agnosticism and atheism. Any chick trying to convert me can forget it.



Since 1976

>fuck no. and fuck a chick who'd make that a condition.


You laid up post, thinking about rainbows and unicorns and she starts talking about "when are you coming to the temple/church/mosque? Just for me!"

i was with a Jehovah's Witness for some time. we were definitely headed for a collision course with that conversation because our relationship was completely secret from her family and many of her friends (a couple of her CLOSE friends knew about me). now, she was violating basically all the JW tenets by being with me, fucking me, drinking with me, etc etc etc but we were getting more serious to the point where if it was gonna continue she was gonna HAVE to ask me become a JW or she was going to have be disfellowed (which means you're a pariah in the eyes of the church and your family and friends can't speak to and associate with you as I understand the practice).

fortunately, the relationship ended before we got there.

I have to stay true to myself

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