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13137891, I don't know a lot about your situation
Posted by be_yourself, Fri Mar-24-17 01:13 PM
but from what you've said I honestly think it's too soon to meet up with him if either of you have no intention of getting back together.

I know from my own experience how hard it is when you're still grieving the relationship, it really is like going through a bereavement. I was with my ex-husband even longer than you were with your partner. I'm over the worst of it, but there is a piece of my heart that will always care about him - and he is the father of my children. I don't think I will ever fully get over it, but I'm now at a stage where I can just be friendly with him and be glad that he is happy with his new wife.

I think if you meet up with him it will delay the healing process. Tempting as it could be, I feel it would be in your best interests to stay away, at least for now. Time is the great healer as they say, and with time things do get easier to cope with.