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Topic subjectCrazy shit only women say
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13126875, Crazy shit only women say
Posted by Effa, Fri Feb-17-17 03:33 PM
(I LOVE YA'LL)

so just overheard someone in the office showing a pic of their 5 year old daughter to some of the ladies/hens in the office.

one of them goes "You *never* showed me this picture!" all accusatory like he done fucked up.

"You Never..."

I've noticed this tone/phrasing before. whats the deal with this?

Are people supposed to just pull you into all the loops?

fuck is this slippery slope shit? This is how "you never take me out" or "you never this that and the third that I also like". Never is just as long as forever.

maybe its just Friday and I want to go home...
13126884, It's about creating "drama" with those loaded statements
Posted by flipnile, Fri Feb-17-17 03:38 PM
>"You Never..."
>
>I've noticed this tone/phrasing before. whats the deal with
>this?

I only hear women and soft-ass dudes phrase shit like this. It's a loaded question/statement that's in the negative. No matter what answer you give you'll be roped into some sort of drama.

The trick is to call that shit out and refuse to play that game. I *never* answer loaded questions. She can either rephrase, or we're done.


>fuck is this slippery slope shit? This is how "you never take
>me out" or "you never this that and the third that I also
>like". Never is just as long as forever.

Don't answer these, ever. It's the same as someone asking you "are you still beating your wife?"

See how you're fucked by answering either "yes" or "no" ?
13126901, i just feel like
Posted by Cenario, Fri Feb-17-17 03:54 PM
13126911, or "I'm not trying to start an argument...but"
Posted by Shogun, Fri Feb-17-17 04:02 PM
nothing good ever followed that statement.


13126918, "OMG, you're so _________"
Posted by flipnile, Fri Feb-17-17 04:05 PM
Classic "change the subject" setup.
13127013, How was your day?
Posted by legsdiamond, Fri Feb-17-17 07:15 PM
It's a set up... eventually you have to ask how their day was and next thing you know it's midnight
13127029, So basically every female at work?
Posted by FILF, Fri Feb-17-17 08:39 PM
>It's a set up... eventually you have to ask how their day was
>and next thing you know it's midnight
13127044, every female...
Posted by legsdiamond, Fri Feb-17-17 10:32 PM
all of them
13127027, "So you're telling me I [insert ANYTHING about weight/beauty]"
Posted by -DJ R-Tistic-, Fri Feb-17-17 08:35 PM
So you're telling me I....

-was fat before?
-was skinnier before?
-Wasn't as beautiful back then?
-need to lose weight?
-look old now?