>Guys cheat for many reasons... thrill of the chase, validating
>their manhood, seeking true intimacy, creating and maintain an
>exciting "secret" lifestyle, etc.

I think all of these fall under the catergory of "filling the void".


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>Many of those thrills can be recreated through hobbies... but
>not all of them.

True. Lacking intimacy probably won't be filled by hobbies. I think many of the "wanting to fill like a man" sort of reasons probably can.



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