if Im correct, you married interracially. her family might love you as someone who's good for their daughter, but also might have preferred it was someone who looks more like them (because race relations havent come that far at all)

all that aside America isnt yours anymore than it belongs to an African, no matter how much you've been deluded into the dream by money or prestige

you're basically Trump if you tell a person "go back where you came from"