"If you really believe transwomen/transmen are REAL women/men like you're telling me, how many have you dated?"

The answer is always zero and a look of befuddlement.

When I ask if they're even open to the idea of dating a transperson most people stumble and stutter; one guy flat out said "I'm not gay so no". We then had a lengthy argument over why what he said completely contradicts the whole "transwomen are real women" stance.

These people making these arguments truly don't believe what they preach.