https://twitter.com/darfucius/status/772428079310528512
https://twitter.com/darfucius/status/772439049692975104

I say it's a crock of shit because I can believe in a person's right to self-identify without wanting to date/fuck. but I'm curious to see what others think

>https://twitter.com/darfucius/status/772428079310528512
>https://twitter.com/darfucius/status/772439049692975104
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>I say it's a crock of shit because I can believe in a person's
>right to self-identify without wanting to date/fuck. but I'm
>curious to see what others think

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5abrr1LIHwk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NjTbis8b4LM

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i'm LGBT and yeah..no.
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Man someone help me out. I forgot what the dude said, but it was similar to this. Just as dumb and confusing.

"If you really believe transwomen/transmen are REAL women/men like you're telling me, how many have you dated?"

The answer is always zero and a look of befuddlement.

When I ask if they're even open to the idea of dating a transperson most people stumble and stutter; one guy flat out said "I'm not gay so no". We then had a lengthy argument over why what he said completely contradicts the whole "transwomen are real women" stance.

These people making these arguments truly don't believe what they preach.

They've got open-mindedness confused with having
no regard for reality.

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Just another dumbass comment from a a fake "enlightened" moron who embraces extreme liberalism at the expense of reason.

and if you, the person arguing for that stance, truly believe it then you would be open to dating one because that's no different than a biological woman or man.

I posed this question to SoWhat once. IIRC, the answer he gave was that he hadn't met one that he was attracted to, but would date a transman if attracted. I'd have to find the thread to be 100% accurate on his response, but I'm pretty sure that was it.

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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out?
Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then?
They don't want to call for peace then.

Not adopt, kidnap, etc, but have my own children with.

Would you find an involuntarily infertile woman or woman who has no interest in having children undatable?

and I wouldn't be surprised if she wasn't interested in men who want kids.

nothing wrong with that at all.

now if we found out after the fact we couldn't have kids thats a whole different thing.

And that's ok.


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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out?
Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then?
They don't want to call for peace then.

because now I don't even have to debate people anymore.
It's become obvious that they're trying to make reality
of their own delusions. I saw it coming to this years ago.

All I have to do is log-off or not go to AfroPunk, and Im free & clear.



Anti-gentrification, cheap alcohol & trying to look pretty in our twilight posting years (c) Big Reg


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^^^ type of post one of these fake ass new progressive negros will make

it's like the difference between tolerance and whatever the new standard is

i'd date a bisexual woman...i'd date a gay woman if she was so inclined to do so...

but i, like most of the world am transphobic and would not date a transwoman...and i don't support all policy surrounding transpeople...

i'm for equality in theory but don't fully accept it in practice more often than I would like to admit

i'm ok with it in regards to public restrooms...not so much with prisons...and pretty much open to everything else for the most part

so i can understand the reasoning but even if i weren't transphobic...i'd likely have similar objections

happen if one of these wanna-be dude studs got put in a men's prison...

Like, that shit seems like the most obvious angle if you're a man and you know you have lost all hope of avoiding prison. Just claim that your name is Janice now and you're officially a woman. At least you'll be surrounded by pussy instead of dodging dicks.

You can still be yourself, just call it "butch".

If so, I can see why you say you agree.
If not, your obvious disagreement sounds pretty common.




>but i, like most of the world am transphobic and would not
>date a transwoman...and i don't support all policy surrounding
>transpeople...
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>i'm for equality in theory but don't fully accept it in
>practice more often than I would like to admit
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>i'm ok with it in regards to public restrooms...not so much
>with prisons...and pretty much open to everything else for the
>most part

recognize them as simply the sex they want/claim to be

What do you mean by that? I'm gonna go out on a limb and guess that you aren't scared of transgender people. So are you saying that you don't like them? That you couldn't be friends with someone who was trans?

I guess I'm asking because i'm wondering if you are classifying yourself as transphobic simply because you wouldn't eff one?

So, if I don't date someone I don't respect them? Who the heck comes up with this nonsense.
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work for L&G....and it's a borderline acceptable stance for a non-Bi person to not want to date a Bi person...


"Get ready....for your blessing....."

Whether you like dressing up as a woman or not.
SO being a heterosexual man, I aint tryna date a man that makes believe they are a woman.

If you have a vagina, You are in my dating pool. LOL

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>If you have a vagina, You are in my dating pool. LOL


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

Which would be no since she trine look like a man. But what if she cleans up nicely. LOL Shit We may have all messed with a chick that cross dresses on the low as a dude.

>If you have a vagina, You are in my dating pool. LOL

I'm heterosexual I aint checking for manly women.

Come on this is black and white people. IF you re born with a dick you are a man.

i just wasn't sure what you meant. we're eye to eye on that

www.Tupreme.com

https://ibb.co/k4m6n8C

It's not that hard.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

if its a deal breaker, it means that you recognize a difference between a woman who has everything you like in a woman that you'd absolutely date and a trans woman with most of those same characteristics that you wouldn't date because they are trans

There's a lot of reasons someone might not want to have sex with me:

I'm Black
I'm too old/young
I'm fat
I drive an 04 car
I'm a cis gendered male
I'm wearing a red shirt
I'm ugly (to some people)

And I could go on. But I'm not going to look down on somebody for that opinion. No one owes me their body/attention.


There is no such thing as an invalid reason to not want to have a romantic/sexual relationship with someone.

Now if someone. Tries to commit violence against me for one of those or tries to deny me civil rights based on one of those categories. THAT is a problem.

My current girlfriend is straight.

I have some Trans friends and associates who think it's kind of prejudice to not find transmen/women attractive or a sexual option if you're attracted to cisgendered men/women.

I can't really agree with that. No one is really obligated to find anyone else attractive or have sex with that person.

I'm not aware of any surgery that can give a man those things or vice versa

the pelvis will never lie
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but i hear you, yadda yadda, dig up some bones and bobs your uncle...er, aunt.

transparent in here imo.

No one likes to be fooled and full disclosure would be expected so an informed decision could be made by all involved parties. And I get the wanting to birth children angle and it's legit.

Ideally, transgender women identify as women so they don't see themselves as transformed. They see it as correcting a misappropriation.

But let's not act like most of ya'll wouldn't be trying to smang Amiyah Scott sans full disclosure.

http://az801229.vo.msecnd.net/wetpaint/2015/09/amiyah-scott-nene-leakes-750x522-1442423060.jpg

The birthed woman is on the right (Nene Leaks) and Amiyah replaced her on RHOA.

http://www.funkydineva.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/amiyah-scott.jpg

Ocho Cinco chillin'

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ZL1T1MliVEk/Uuu47QeDTgI/AAAAAAAAGrU/lzV_AGX-PEw/s1600/e75f3d727b4911e3adfa12b0a1e5f761_8.jpeg

I wonder if dude knows (or cares) she use to be a he.

https://a4-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/121/dffc307184cb43b4811505b43822ae60/full.jpg
https://bossip.files.wordpress.com/2015/08/screen-shot-2015-08-17-at-11-24-38-pm.png?w=549&h=551

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/40/43/a9/4043a92d4519f13ac8e7a02b692e8396.jpg

All that phot shopping aint gonna mean jack when those panties drop. LOL

And if she had the full operation and gave me full disclosure I would pass with the quickness. Nah player to many actual women in the world to be messing around with a lab project.

>And I get the wanting to birth children angle and
>it's legit.


I mean... human beings are seriously having to
explain that procreation is a legit dating concern.
Ludicrous.
It's like explaining desire for food and water.

already thinking about kids with the person.

i guess it's a legit dating concern, but... i dunno. that's way later in the deal. and in those cases, am i really ruling people out because they can't physically GIVE BIRTH?

if i fall in love with a woman and she's "barren"... am i really chucking the deuces?

unlikely.

We're here because we, as humans, procreate.
It's a natural desire.
As stated before, this why finding out one is
"barren" is most often a source of pain/frustration.
Most mature adults wouldn't just bounce on their
spouse because they couldn't have kids tho.

Let's not play this game of procreation not being
a biological desire tho. Not today fam.

this idea that a trans woman is simply just a woman.

ive known a few trans folks through the years and because of our friendships and associations I've learned a bit.

its an interesting subject because the intention (from a person who may be trans) varies

like

for example, some individuals want to visually appear as a woman and will be content with "passing". names are dead and they are in a traditional lane under the heteronormative gaze

and

maybe on the other side of the spectrum you have individuals who make no attempt to satisfy the gender binary and exist in a different area of representation. gender is played with and new paradigms are created which in turn are new forms of attractiveness to a receptive audience.



for me I know that in that area there is a lot that I do not understand and I'm ok with not understanding (pronouns can become confusing as this a personal choice), nor do I feel a need to limit them in what they do. It is what it is.
I know that my children or my children's children will have a different view. I will have to die off for a shift to occur.

at the same time, on the topic of dating...well, that is where I become uncomfortable.

I think....even though I know in my brain that these people are women the lizard part of my brain just plainly does not find them attractive.

maybe its a hang up about knowing of a past history and being inflexible about loving someone who has a radically different past from the current (i.e., who this person is different from their childhood photos)

maybe its a hang up about not being able to talk about their past in a comfortable manner (i.e., she is represented as woman but then her childhood pictures are of her playing baseball as a boy, that is if childhood photos still exist, which is a bit of a strange position to be in, dating someone who's past is only as far as very recent history...which could mean that maybe all of their past weighs heavily on this very big issue of dysmorphia)

maybe its an inability to view the current person while having an inability of disconnecting who they are from who they were (i.e., you are a woman now but you WERE visually male and I cannot look at the person of today without seeing the hints of the person of yesterday and that is uncomfortable)

maybe its not wanting to share a relationship with the big elephant in the room being the transition and how (i would imagine) all aspects of life are affected by it


in our current world i think it takes a special kind of person who sees life in a radically different way to go down that path without holding on to mainstream "traditional" thought.


edit: I've actually dated a woman or two (that is born as a woman) who considered themselves gender queer in dress. that is, they choose to actively reject traditional visual signifiers of femininty while still being very physically/socially feminine.

I knew then that I know nothing of people.

did they actually say this or are you giving a progressive definition of dressing in jeans and a t shirt?

I just realized Jana Shortal is more or less how they dressed

https://twitter.com/janashortal/status/707339780812632065/photo/1?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw

https://pbs.twimg.com/profile_images/746898156487589888/58Agc46Z_400x400.jpg


i guess its what happens when a tomboy grows up

as for me, i acknowledge and accept that it is entirely within the realm of possibility i may find a trans woman attractive/desirable, and i leave it at that. haven't had to cross that bridge.

these discussions are stupid by the way.

It's such a real honest question with clear outcomes on all sides as far as figuring out where people stand.

If you meet someone and the bond is there then fuck what the world thinks. Y'all in love and bring on all the harsh outcomes. Very few people in this world get to experience true love so if two people find it then enjoy it.

I say all of that to say I don't know what I'd do. My gut response is fuck no but I'd be lying if I said that because once again if the bond is there on that level then it would be hard to turn down.

their “trans-ness” with people they’re dating.


www.Tupreme.com

https://ibb.co/k4m6n8C

who?

what made you pull up this post?

or just stumble on these post while they were trying to find another one.

>or just stumble on these post while they were trying to find
>another one.
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respect means

don't unfairly judge or perpetuate stereotypes
don't discriminate when hiring
don't misgender someone
don't treat people like they're less than
don't vote against the interests of the most vulnerable folks
do actively advocate for equity & inclusion when its within your power to do so
do speak up when you see someone being harmed
etc etc

it does not mean you have to date or fukk someone in that group

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"But rest assured, in my luxurious house built on the backs of people darker than me, I am sipping fine scotch and scoffing at how stupid you are." - bshelly

"But rest assured, in my luxurious house built on the backs of people darker than me, I am sipping fine scotch and scoffing at how stupid you are." - bshelly

I look askance at non-black people that won't date or don't find black folks attractive. I would question their views on race.

but...

I would consider myself an ally (ugh... how corny) but, and I have dated Bi-women ( I'm suspect of that now, for reasons relating to how women who are used to dating women, relate to men ) and although I have had my issues with them, I would consider dating another one.

but when it comes to trans.... I don't think I would want to. I respect their struggle but I'm good. I just don't find them attractive.

like I said, iono.