But I've probably got head from 10-12 and didn't have sex after. I could have taken it there probably 8-9 times, but didn't want to for various reasons. It's some that I knew wouldn't be able to handle us just having sex, since we weren't together...and in general, after I cum from sex, I can sleep very very well.

Also, some chicks think head is just "fun" and not intimate as sex, while some think opposite. I've had sex with plenty who weren't willing to give head too, especially in college.