Tbh, I assume if you make racist decisions you're perfectly fine with being a racist. It's far more healthy and laudable to be comfortable in and defend your own opinions than deny them.

And that's ok. Be proud about your choices - if you date along racial lines whether inclusive or exclusive of your own race, go for it... just don't try and deny it's not rooted in racism.

And although I find some elements of it frustrating I'm never going to try and argue that minority racism is in any way comparable in harm to white racism.