If you date everyone BUT a race, you're racist. If you date nobody but a race, but your racist. If you decide anything based on someone's race, you're a racist.

But you're right - racism exists at many levels and potencies. At the level of exerting power across society through racism then black people will likely never have the ability of white people to be racist... I completely agree. But of course we're all capable of being internally prejudiced against other races - and what is that called if it's not racism?

Have you got a separate word for that because one's probably needed if it can't be called racism.