>Your already at the finish line with your reply, "I shouldn't
>matter"

Don't think I said that.

>It shouldn't require an explanation...

Didn't say that either, far as I recall.

>doesn't take away from the fact there's always a reason

There isn't always a reason and there doesn't have to be a reason.

>most people give one...

That's a different discussion point and not one that I've argued.