add to that that POC always embraced me, whereas white people mocked me for not being white enough. plus white people who are or hold racist views always think i will somehow share their views, so I've never had any desire to date my own race. now, i would date a white woman, if one approached me, and there are definitely white women all the time that i think are beautiful, but im thirty six, and have only dated black women, with one exception of dating a puerto rican woman. also, I've had two black female roommates in my life. once at twenty one, and currently. both times have been great experiences where we were both like minded. im far more comfortable around black people than white people.