But being who I am, not a Hotep at all but someone who values Black culture, history, and family? It surely bothers me.

A girl I know from the Valley out here is very Pro-Black, but her younger brother from the Valley is polar opposite. Said he'll never date Black women, and that they're never attractive to him, and they're loud, ghetto, ignorant, etc. etc.

Bad thing is...she says he was talking to a Black girl at a party who was very cute, and nothing near ghetto...and his friends grabbed him, and said "ugh, why you talking to her? She looks raggedy" SOLELY because she's Black.

That shit affects US when it's idiots out there that act like this. Even if it's not the majority, that's a major issue to me. Especially because we know where that thinking comes from.