Ever done it?


Come in here and enable me, damnit

but i've definitely hung with one girl during the day and went on a dinner date with another in the evening...or done a dinner date and mad plans to meet someone for drinks or at a club later.

But never double booked like dinner with you at 5:30 dessert/drinks with you at 9pm. Too much can go 'right' on date number 1 to mess up date #2.

Unfortunately mine is happy hour drinks with one

Then catching the dubs game with another


Might be cutting it kinda close.


I'm actually more worried that I'll be too distracted by the game to pay attention to this broad. Thankfully it's just the rockets lol

#ballislife

where is this going down?

My biggest issue was always if you are hitting it off with the first one, why do you tell her you need to go?

Probably just wants to watch to be part of her work water cooler talk

>where is this going down?


At Portal. A bar near Lake Merrit




>My biggest issue was always if you are hitting it off with the
>first one, why do you tell her you need to go?


This is what has me reconsidering the second date. On paper the first one seems like the better match for me - th second one just kind of fell into my lap tbh. She asked me out

If the first one goes as planned imma just cancel on the second girl and stay at the hAppy hour bar to watch the dubs game with #1

You book the badder one first because you're on your A game. It's still the first quarter. Got plenty gas in the tank


Might be a little winded by the second date. I'm also a pretty damn good conversationalist and these things usually go on at least two hours for me




Four hours of talking. That's a lot for one day imo

happy hour/after work drinks @ 5:30 PM w/date #1 - the least favored. that's got a built-in end time at like 7PM.

dinner @ 9PM w/date #2 - the most favored.

I'm not that kind of girl!

>I'm not that kind of girl!

...what kind of girl is that?

d

take a seat

when i cancel on her, or she won't be that mad when i show up late, wrinkled or drunk.

I usually pre game before a date anyway. Put back a beer or two. Takes the edge off


Then I'll be drinking at happy hour with date numero uno

which cuts out the second date. so unless you plan to be strict with your times with the one you like more, i wouldn't bother.

then again, it depends on the times. are you doing a morning date then a dinner date? a coffee date then a lunch date? i mean, what kind of dates are these.

i can't do two dates only because i don't have it in me to try to entertain all these different men with my wittiness in one day.

>which cuts out the second date. so unless you plan to be
>strict with your times with the one you like more, i wouldn't
>bother.

First one went so well that it definitely cut into the second one. By an hour and a half :/


>
>then again, it depends on the times. are you doing a morning
>date then a dinner date? a coffee date then a lunch date? i
>mean, what kind of dates are these.

I probably should've scheduled it that way. But nah these were scheduled back to back. A happy hour date for the first. Then a late ddrink sort of thing for the second

I figured the first date would go the usual two hours. We ended up kickin it for at least 4 !!



>
>i can't do two dates only because i don't have it in me to try
>to entertain all these different men with my wittiness in one
>day.


Yup me too. It was definitely a mentally draining experience. Having to be "on" For that much time. I'll admit date #2 wasn't as good partially for that reason. Didn't help that I was already four drinks deep in the game by the time I met up with her lol

>I figured the first date would go the usual two hours. We
>ended up kickin it for at least 4 !!

because I didn't show up buzzed and late like I did the second one lol


and as I mentioned above, I was kind of mentally drained from all the conversation from #1. Felt like I was doing a theatre production and I had two shows in the same night -- repeating the same lines, hitting the same marks etc

it was just sex though.

i've done that several times.

you are not exclusive with anyone right?
ive woke after spending the night a a women cribs...gone to lunch with different girl...went to dinner with a different girl and spent the night at a different girls house in the same night
unless you are exclusive or working towards that...get those dates in

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>you are not exclusive with anyone right?
>ive woke after spending the night a a women cribs...gone to
>lunch with different girl...went to dinner with a different
>girl and spent the night at a different girls house in the
>same night
>unless you are exclusive or working towards that...get those
>dates in

nah I kid i kid


but that does sound like a event filled day fam


I'm tryin to get where you at

had good times but it all came from a dark place

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it seems a bit disrespectful to the other party


i know i wouldn't want someone doing that to me

That night at least lol

If you'r really in the game to can do three dates in a day.

First date for Lunch @ 12 pm.
Second date for Movie at 3 pm
Third date for dinner at 8:30 pm

All possible and proven to be doable.


But, you'd have to have the time, money, patience and a willingness to cut anyone of them off by canceling on them with out any feelings of remorse.

I have done this kind of thing in the past on many times with two dates in a day. Three on special occasion, I have done three. But The Jesus called and I grew a heart and I cut down on lipreading my time thin. Still I always treated each female like she was the very best and very special. I'm glad those days are over.

.

and had a blind "date" show up the same night. The blind date was just a formal introduction and we set up a future date night.

I used to play with fire for no damn reason.

Too many days in a year to schedule 2 dates on the same night.

...'cus technically, you single.

And even if you wasn't single, it'd only be a dilemma if
you went beyond the parameters set by yourself in-so-much-as our
relations/relationships are what we define them to be.

Thus, whether you subscribe to polygamy or monogamy is
to be dynamically determined by you as you see fit.

The first date I had already set up since mid week.


Second one just kind of fell into my lap. She asked me out so I said fuck it and went


Trouble was the first date went so well I ended up being helllla late for the second one. We were supposed to meet for the start of the Warriors game last night. I didn't even get there til like mid second quarter. Was late because I was making out in the car with date #1 lol

Weird thing is, #2 didn't even seem mad. I did shoot her a text telling her I'd be late. But still. Over an hour late to a date. She's more patient than me for sure


I was pretty mentally exhausted by the night though. That's too much for one night anymore

Giving people strong impressions and going the other way is kinda lying too.

But, as has been pointed out, you're not committed anyway.