>but if you 14 and you get touched, what's not to know? you
>should know that what's being done to you ain't cool.
>
>that's what i was saying

it's not cool, what are you gonna do? Its a grown man, you just gonna say 'No' and expect him to stop? It ain't gonna happen. You either scrapping and will probably lose because he's a grown man. Then you are gonna tell someone else and will deal with the consequences of other kids assuming you wanted it?

Also keep in mind that the confusion, etc.. is all a part of the grooming process. By the time you figure out whats happening it's too late.

Its just kind of easy to look at it as adults and be like, "WTF" not realizing that we were making fucked up decisions on the basics, like haircuts, when we were 13.