I've been seeing this chick for 2 months. She called me a selfish lover last night and basically broke up with me. She hadn't cum from Intercourse with me once since we started seeing each other.


But she said the sex is great o_0
C'mon which one is it!!

We are really hot for each other, Passionate, Intimate.
Kissing is really good, petting, licking and sucking is good.
I'm bringing the wood at full strength.
What else does she want from me?!!

I've been with over 300 women and Maybe 25% of them didn't bust. And most of them said they can't from regular sex. But were happy that I could finish.

Poll question: When A woman can't Orgasm, Who's fault is it?

Poll result (11 votes) Man's Fault cause he is not pointing the time (3 votes) Vote Woman's Fault because she don't know her body (7 votes) Vote Other (1 votes) Vote

and i say that as a woman. it may not be her FAULT, but the issue lies with her. Some women just don't no matter what you try, so what can you do. now if she does it all the time with other ppl and herself, then you might be the issue. but then she should tell you what works.

So I asked what does she like. SHe can't answer.
She also says she doesn't orgasm often.
It has to be her issue. I'm damn good in bed. LOL

lol nah I kid

Maybe she might not be mentally into you. The sex could be good but maybe it takes a little bit more than that to get her to orgasm. She broke up cause she couldn't get off?

You may have dodged a bullet.

But she just can't finish. We've gone over 30 minutes each time. Nothing....

I guess we just aint compatible. I prefer a chick that can bust with in 15 minutes and then I can finish soon after. I have no problems finishing unless I'm hammered. LOL

The sex was amazing but it just took her forever to get off. The difference is after awhile she opened up. She was a little afraid of just letting go in the moment. Had some insecurities. We worked on that and she opened up a little more and more each time, was willing to let go and not let what was going on in her head fuck her up during the sex.

Made her feel comfortable about herself. She had a banging body but was just self conscious. I made her feel good, assured her that she was fine to me. Maybe that built her confidence up. When she finally opened up and just relaxed she could orgasm like crazy, I mean buckets.

Maybe this is your girls issue and maybe not, but that's what helped me. She was shocked at herself and it took things to a different level in the bedroom.

would not surprise me that its all in her head.

do you talk dirty? do you compliment her body? do you act like her nana is the meal of your life? all of this matters. sex can be quite mental and her mind might be in the way

so that shit really do make a difference?

you like when a guy is eating and he all acting like he eating good food, with hmms, and ummmms. and mmmmmms?

good to know.

cause i sure do like it when a woman is acting like my shit taste so damn good, even though i know she's totally faking - i appreciate it.

>do you talk dirty? do you compliment her body? do you act
>like her nana is the meal of your life? all of this matters.
>sex can be quite mental and her mind might be in the way

"Niggas out here all have wack dick! I've been with 20 niggas, and NONE of them have made me cum yet!"

Um, sorry hun, but your equipment is defective. Hope it came with a receipt

>"Niggas out here all have wack dick! I've been with 20
>niggas, and NONE of them have made me cum yet!"
>
>Um, sorry hun, but your equipment is defective. Hope it came
>with a receipt

And this chick has crappy communication skills.
Let me know if I'm on the right spot with my fingers or tongue or something. She making all this noise but aint even close to busting. How is that even possible.

she gets blamed for everything else soooooo

don't know how to cooperate when she's on top trying to get hers. then again, you could also be unattractive and your grunts distract her from visualizing idris with her eyes closed.
that said, IT TAKES TWO!! Don't even think of putting all the blame on her. knowing her body has nothing to do with you not understanding it. give her a vibrator and i bet she cums. be patient, watch her work, be willing to take direction and everyone will be happy.

but she can't climax. She even tried to put a vibe on it while i was inside and nothing. I think I thru her off when I told her It shouldnt take more than 20 minutes for both of us to climax unless we are drunk.

She went on a tirade about how there shouldnt be time limits when it comes to making love, blah blah blah....

I was like sheeitt if I gotta eat your box or finger bang for an hour to get you off than this is no longer making love this is fucking work. No thanks You are broken.

your arms be hurting, but at least you weren't selfish.

put your mouth on the clit while finger banging


cut it down 10-15 minutes tops

fuck it, get that down to like 5-7 mins.

tops!

5-7 mins tho???? save me a couple of bucks sheeeeit.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-gZ2Rqu-ygM

You weren't working with her. She wasn't working with herself.

tell and tech you what will put her over the edge and you have to be patient enough to listen and do it.

Foreplay starts way before you get to the bedroom...

complement her all day when you can.. send her text messages (not dic pics). Call her video chat hold her hand remember romance.. make her feel special..

then when you in the bed room take your time and dont act like you in a porno....

If that dont work... Go to adamandeve.com and buy her a silver bullet... and some swiss navy lube...

When I'm smashing. LOL

A woamn likes a man that is confident and directs and talks shit and pulls hair and slaps asses and bites nipples etc.....

I could def work on the subtle touch and sweet nothings aspect. But when Jimmy is ready to go I be pouncing on that ass. LOL