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Topic subjectSo Kehlani just tried to kill herself...
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12995322, So Kehlani just tried to kill herself...
Posted by Hitokiri, Tue Mar-29-16 01:25 AM
And then she posted about it on instagram...
https://www.instagram.com/p/BDhqRqrvDzL/?taken-by=kehlani
That makes it seem disingenuous.

And since I just had to run a quick search to see what this is about I'll spare you the clicks:

Kehlani was dating PartyNextDoor, they broke up. She started dating Kyrie Irving in January. Yesterday PartyNextDoor posted a picture of the two of them in bed with the caption “After all her shenanigans, still got the R&B singer back in my bed"

Twitter went ham.
And then Kehlani did the same.

12995323, I tried to die today
Posted by SeV, Tue Mar-29-16 02:13 AM
But more importantly I didn't cheat on nobody.

(C)Kehlani



sigh



____________

Dallas Cavericks LETS GO!!
12995336, I think of a statement with lower self esteem.
Posted by Buddy_Gilapagos, Tue Mar-29-16 06:18 AM

**********
"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"
12995324, this entire generation of females wanna be hoes so bad
Posted by Reeq, Tue Mar-29-16 02:59 AM
but cant deal with the moral and emotional consequences.
12995326, I don't know what these words mean.
Posted by TheAlbionist, Tue Mar-29-16 04:53 AM
Kehlani
PartyNextDoor
Kyrie Irving

Are these actual people's names?
12995340, Thanks for sharing
Posted by Big Kuntry, Tue Mar-29-16 06:34 AM
12995417, RE: I don't know what these words mean.
Posted by astralblak, Tue Mar-29-16 09:35 AM
>Kehlani
-singer, semi-pop star
>PartyNextDoor
-singer, Drake protegee
>Kyrie Irving
-Basketball player on Cleveland Cavs. Great talent. always injured
>
>Are these actual people's names?
hope that helped
12995329, who is Kehlani?
Posted by FLUIDJ, Tue Mar-29-16 05:47 AM

"Get ready..for your blessing..."
12995354, ^^^Same thing I said. Pornstar came to mind.
Posted by Binladen, Tue Mar-29-16 07:46 AM
12995384, lol same
Posted by Amritsar, Tue Mar-29-16 08:33 AM
12995419, young, possibly Latin@ pop singer from Oakland
Posted by astralblak, Tue Mar-29-16 09:42 AM
makes joints like this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0E1xYcXsGp0
and this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gxHK6Irgt1Q

looka like this:
http://scoremoreshows.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/k1.jpg
https://yt3.ggpht.com/-EYA2B1iEi1s/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAAA/qZcW97cXNMc/s900-c-k-no-rj-c0xffffff/photo.jpg
12995330, who/why is PartyNextDoor?
Posted by FLUIDJ, Tue Mar-29-16 05:47 AM

"Get ready..for your blessing..."
12995331, who is Kyrie Irving?
Posted by FLUIDJ, Tue Mar-29-16 05:48 AM

"Get ready..for your blessing..."
12995332, google still works
Posted by Madvillain 626, Tue Mar-29-16 05:50 AM
12995335, Julius Erving's son
Posted by wluv, Tue Mar-29-16 06:11 AM
come on dude
12995377, I don't watch sports
Posted by FLUIDJ, Tue Mar-29-16 08:23 AM

"Get ready..for your blessing..."
12995382, not this kid, right?
Posted by SoWhat, Tue Mar-29-16 08:32 AM
http://cdn2-b.examiner.com/sites/default/files/styles/article_large/hash/c8/4f/c84f26dc42d13a7c6b2a6ad2eaf97596.jpg?itok=KSpnH08S

oh duh. you said Julius Irving. i have Earvin Johnson in my head. LOL
12995606, This woulda made it way more interesting
Posted by -DJ R-Tistic-, Tue Mar-29-16 12:09 PM
12995438, ctfu
Posted by ambient1, Tue Mar-29-16 09:52 AM
12995341, Besides the obvious fact that this is a message board...
Posted by Big Kuntry, Tue Mar-29-16 06:44 AM
why do y'all come into post and say things like this lol?

I really be scratching my head everytime I see y'all do it.
12995346, Don't mind me fam, i'm just an old head trying to stay hip on what
Posted by FLUIDJ, Tue Mar-29-16 07:26 AM
y'all youngins be yapping about...

"Get ready..for your blessing..."
12995358, Men need to give men the heads-up once in a while.
Posted by TheAlbionist, Tue Mar-29-16 07:53 AM
Posting gossip about girls no self-respecting grown, adult male has heard of is one of those times.

Fix up, OP. You're posting like a little girl.
12995362, asking questions on a message board that u could
Posted by SeV, Tue Mar-29-16 08:03 AM
Easily find out yourself is some teenage girl shyt


____________

Dallas Cavericks LETS GO!!
12995366, I don't want to know who any of those people are.
Posted by TheAlbionist, Tue Mar-29-16 08:07 AM
My 'questions' were a rhetorical jab at men who pay enough attention to gossip sites aimed at teenage girls to know who any of these people are.

Please don't inform me. Just let me judge you.

Mmmm... judgement.
12995381, or maybe we just have a twitter
Posted by SeV, Tue Mar-29-16 08:31 AM
but feel free to make a post about the breakdown of the black family household


____________

Dallas Cavericks LETS GO!!
12995405, kyrie irving is on the front of ESPN like three times a week
Posted by Nodima, Tue Mar-29-16 09:19 AM
and the other two are R&B artists.


say fuck any culture but the culture of my youth all you want but all three people have nothing to do with teen girl gossip rags.


especially Kyrie. sheesh.

~~~~~~~~~
"This is the streets, and I am the trap." � Jay Bilas
http://www.popmatters.com/pm/archive/contributor/517
Hip Hop Handbook: http://tinyurl.com/ll4kzz
12995584, ^^ doesnt understand the phrase 'rhetorical jab'
Posted by seasoned vet, Tue Mar-29-16 11:48 AM
12995367, What is that sayin bout you...
Posted by Big Kuntry, Tue Mar-29-16 08:10 AM
youve replied twice in a "gossip (post)about girls no self-respecting grown, adult
male has heard of is one of those times."




12995368, Feeling superior to you is making my post-Easter Tuesday more bearable.
Posted by TheAlbionist, Tue Mar-29-16 08:11 AM
So please, carry on talking about facile stuff my niece would be embarrassed to be heard talking about and allow me to judge you from afar. We'll all win.
12995375, Lol
Posted by SoWhat, Tue Mar-29-16 08:23 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FdghRwWfaOQ
12995428, LOL. damn
Posted by astralblak, Tue Mar-29-16 09:46 AM
.
12995556, sheesh!
Posted by Dstl1, Tue Mar-29-16 11:28 AM
.
12995386, the previous post only named 'Kyrie'
Posted by SoWhat, Tue Mar-29-16 08:40 AM
i filled in the last name as 'Kyrie Jenner' thinking she's one of those younger ones. either the one that's a runway model or that other one who's just...there.

but it turns out he's a dude. who plays basketball? who knew? LOL
12995333, tepid, forgettable r&b power couple
Posted by Madvillain 626, Tue Mar-29-16 05:51 AM
12995345, Both in it to further non existent career
Posted by revolution75, Tue Mar-29-16 07:21 AM
No one heard of them before yesterday
Now they're everywhere
Shit was calculated
After I saw the pic of dude in the hospital posing like he was sad
I knew they were in on all of it
Welcome to 2016
12995353, On one hand, UGH. On the other, she ain't even legal drinking age
Posted by BigReg, Tue Mar-29-16 07:42 AM
All this needless drama is par on course, and is probably playing out in thousands of less popular social media accounts across the globe.

That said, someone needs to punch low budget Weeknd in the face
12995355, punk ass PND needs to retire after this shit
Posted by T Reynolds, Tue Mar-29-16 07:47 AM
could have been avoided had you not shared the pic you fucking dummy
12995359, Yup. Dude bragging like he's 17 and never had pussy before
Posted by BigReg, Tue Mar-29-16 07:54 AM
>could have been avoided had you not shared the pic you
>fucking dummy

After you hit college age fucking whoever is no longer a big deal; if its a good story you might talk about it with the homies over a couple of drinks, but that social media just sounds like you're fishing for

http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2013/03/congrats-sex.gif
12995429, what you and T Rey said
Posted by astralblak, Tue Mar-29-16 09:47 AM
.
12995370, heard them talking about this on espn radio yesterday
Posted by Cenario, Tue Mar-29-16 08:14 AM
i was so confused.
12995371, i keep hearing party next door and picturing the dude from lmfao
Posted by Cenario, Tue Mar-29-16 08:15 AM
12995372, LMFAO because that's EXACTLY what/who I thought this was about
Posted by FLUIDJ, Tue Mar-29-16 08:17 AM

"Get ready..for your blessing..."
12995376, Wtf kinda name is 'party next door' anyway?
Posted by SoWhat, Tue Mar-29-16 08:23 AM
12995393, better than 'ilovemakonnen'
Posted by T Reynolds, Tue Mar-29-16 09:00 AM
12995398, lol. That's not saying much.
Posted by SoWhat, Tue Mar-29-16 09:05 AM
12995402, i beg to differ
Posted by atruhead, Tue Mar-29-16 09:17 AM
it's an expression of self-love and it works for his fans
12995385, I'm glad I'm not the only one. I swore that it was one of them cats.
Posted by placee_22, Tue Mar-29-16 08:35 AM
12995411, Add me to this list
Posted by revolution75, Tue Mar-29-16 09:31 AM
12995389, anything to keep your name trending I suppose
Posted by Amritsar, Tue Mar-29-16 08:53 AM
#STAYSTRONGKEHLANI


#PRAYFORKEHLANI



remember when we hated reality T.v. stars because we thought they were attention whores?


12995455, I know you're not overly fond of me
Posted by atruhead, Tue Mar-29-16 10:09 AM
but let's try not being so jaded that we think a suicide attempt is a publicity attempt

she's 20, emotional and she clearly cant handle the pressures of fame
12995650, lol what? i have no problem with you
Posted by Amritsar, Tue Mar-29-16 12:37 PM
and yeah its possible this isn't a publicity stunt


also possible that it is


I'm just weirded out by the idea that someone would post a picture of their suicide attempt at all



12995399, Let hit em up come on tho nm
Posted by RaFromQueens, Tue Mar-29-16 09:05 AM
12995406, The fuck is wrong with PartyNextDoor? That some new shit right there
Posted by double negative, Tue Mar-29-16 09:20 AM
keep that shit on the low

aint no reason to put that on blast
12995410, he used to be a fatboy loser and he still is deep down
Posted by BrooklynWHAT, Tue Mar-29-16 09:31 AM
music fire tho.
12995412, Is it? I find that shit boring.
Posted by BigReg, Tue Mar-29-16 09:33 AM
What tracks would you recommend?

>music fire tho.
12995421, the new one wit drake is bangin
Posted by Big Kuntry, Tue Mar-29-16 09:43 AM
>https://soundcloud.com/partyomo/come-and-see-me-ft-drake
12995787, sounds like boilerplate post-drake rapsinging to me
Posted by bearfield, Tue Mar-29-16 01:57 PM
pretty boring. seems like it could be on a bryson tiller, tory lanez, ty dolla $ign, etc. album/tape. not sure what differentiates this from all the other stuff that sounds just like it
12995521, RE: Is it? I find that shit boring.
Posted by BrooklynWHAT, Tue Mar-29-16 11:05 AM
the whole PartyNextDoor Two tape. especially SLS, FWU, Options and Recognize

then some random tracks from him i like
dont worry feat cashout
wus good / curious
preach (from that if you're reading its too late album)
stuck on stacks (from p. reign's album)
persian rugs

if you haven't liked what youve heard already then that probably wont change though.
12995431, lol. goodness
Posted by astralblak, Tue Mar-29-16 09:49 AM
.
12995527, doing what he did was so deeply bitchmade. no respect for women
Posted by double negative, Tue Mar-29-16 11:06 AM
12995416, RE: So Kehlani just tried to kill herself...
Posted by double 0, Tue Mar-29-16 09:35 AM
It would be naive to think this single incident is the sole reason she wanted to not be here anymore...

We've lost enough OKPs to hopefully understand that by now
12995424, Is it more or less naive to think this is a publicity stunt.
Posted by Hitokiri, Tue Mar-29-16 09:44 AM
Suicide and mental health are both very serious issues that need to be treated as such.
But it's hard for me to think a rising pop star tries to commit suicide and then instagrams about it a few hours later.
12995437, if a "rising pop star" shares everything else on IG, why not this?
Posted by Damali, Tue Mar-29-16 09:50 AM
i don't see your logic.

this internet generation talks about everything online.

d
12995563, bc psych wards dont allow phones
Posted by MiracleRic, Tue Mar-29-16 11:33 AM
hell they won't even allow you to send flowers

that shit is pretty much across the board so unless she's in the hospital under false pretenses...which is even worse bc why would you lie to the doctors only to tell the truth to IG

12995727, bc when you're suffering from depression
Posted by Damali, Tue Mar-29-16 01:25 PM
or mental illness (which are both the most common cause of suicide attempts), you don't make very many logical or rational decisions.

you do things that don't make any sense to a rational, logical, non-depressed person.

d
12995443, Might be a sign of the times, TBH
Posted by bentagain, Tue Mar-29-16 09:54 AM
as someone posted above, being a bit older, I think we've all had an experience with losses to suicide IRL and on these boards

harsh, but I've always thought faiLed attempts were a cry for help and/or attention

but more to the generational thing

I have a nephew in HS and there was this thing where kids were 'attempting' suicide so they could get out of their school work for the year

things done changed (c)

also, I had no idea who she and PND were before this post

I still don't know who they are, so this incident is my reference

12995444, RE: Is it more or less naive to think this is a publicity stunt.
Posted by double 0, Tue Mar-29-16 09:54 AM
She was born in 1995.. she doesn't know a world w/o social media. She is 20 and she could also be a bit naive in thinking that this could "help" someone when she needs to be dealing with her own issues..

She is in that age window where a lot of mental health issues manifest themselves fairly rapidly so she may not even understand the gravity of it all..
12995426, Screenshot of the post
Posted by Hitokiri, Tue Mar-29-16 09:45 AM
since it was taken down
http://imgur.com/SOPOOvd
12995440, thats real - i hope she gets the help she needs
Posted by Big Kuntry, Tue Mar-29-16 09:52 AM
12995554, People crack jokey jokes about celebs without thinking of consequence.
Posted by Frank Longo, Tue Mar-29-16 11:27 AM
I'm of course occasionally guilty of it too. Shit like this is always a sobering reminder.
12995576, don't they take your phone if u under suicide watch
Posted by SeV, Tue Mar-29-16 11:43 AM

____________

Dallas Cavericks LETS GO!!
12995432, It's surreal
Posted by Numba_33, Tue Mar-29-16 09:50 AM
all the jokes and clowning that's going down on twitter is getting archived in the Library of Congress. The voluntary submission of privacy that folks give up to get down on social media will always confound me.
12995442, .
Posted by astralblak, Tue Mar-29-16 09:53 AM
.
12995567, She shouldn't have made the suicide post...
Posted by Marbles, Tue Mar-29-16 11:35 AM

This whole situation is stupid & weird.

Kyrie's best move is to not address it, let it ride & KIM.

I hope she can address her issues & get help.
12995571, security in psych wards is no joke
Posted by MiracleRic, Tue Mar-29-16 11:38 AM
so how is she still allowed access to social media?

that's like treating an OD patient and allowing them to keep the rest of the drugs in the hospital...

i know suicide is no joke but even i think this is more "im just one hit away yall" modern day reality tv public relations drama

never mind the part that says "more importantly im not cheating" even though being caught in that is what caused the shitstorm to begin with

nope...more modern day marketing fuckery
12995589, being caught?
Posted by atruhead, Tue Mar-29-16 11:53 AM

>never mind the part that says "more importantly im not
>cheating" even though being caught in that is what caused the
>shitstorm to begin with

she could have broken up with dude A privately while dude B announced it to the world
12995655, right? they took my phone away in pre-op before ligament hand surgery lol
Posted by Amritsar, Tue Mar-29-16 12:39 PM
yet here this broad is holding on to her phone?


nah
12995583, technology/social media are turning the youth of America fucking weird.
Posted by PROMO, Tue Mar-29-16 11:48 AM
12995588, They were always weird. They just share their weirdness more freely.
Posted by Frank Longo, Tue Mar-29-16 11:51 AM
12995609, nah man.
Posted by PROMO, Tue Mar-29-16 12:12 PM
my wife and I are raising my 15 year old niece and her sister, who is 7.

I drive the 15 year old to HS everyday. Yesterday, she was bemoaning the Instagram update that doesn't put photos in order of when they were posted but in order of some ranking of popularity/relevancy.

I was telling her it won't matter to me because I ONLY go on there when I'm bored and have nothing else to do so I just wanna see pics it doesn't matter if they are in order or if I miss something cuz I just scroll pics and go "that's interesting" or "that's boring" basically.

she said it messes her up because she might miss something her friends post or they might miss something she posts because it's their OBLIGATION (her exact words) as friends to like and comment on each other's posts.

i straight up told her (in so many words as nicely as possible): wow, social media has made you kids different then when I grew up. i grew up having confidence in my own identity and self-worth so when i post something on social media i don't care if no one likes it or 1000 people do, because i know i like it and it's the shit.

long story short, these kids seem to ONLY get their confidence and worth from the attention they receive from each other. i know there are exceptions, but these kids on the WHOLE are much more different than the kids we grew up as.
12995617, Kids sought peer validation before social media, though.
Posted by Frank Longo, Tue Mar-29-16 12:18 PM
Kids pre-social media were always going to things and doing things and saying things and listening to things just to seek validation from their peers. Social media just streamlined the process.
12995625, understood.
Posted by PROMO, Tue Mar-29-16 12:24 PM
the point is they seem to base more of their self-worth than ever on it.

like, when i grew up, kids would play by themselves. now, because we are constantly connected, no kids EVER have to play by themselves. the problem is when no one is around to play with them they are utterly lost.
12995601, Kyrie needs to eject himself from this entire situation and...
Posted by TheRealBillyOcean, Tue Mar-29-16 12:04 PM
stop fucking with messy broads.

He seems like a solid dude with a good upbringing.
12995620, Agreed.
Posted by Frank Longo, Tue Mar-29-16 12:19 PM
Then again, it took me until age 26 to learn this lesson, and I don't have millions of dollars or access to women across the country. So Ky might be in for a couple more years of roller-coaster relationship shit.
12995623, Man, that broad is 20 and got Machine Gun Kelly tatts.
Posted by TheRealBillyOcean, Tue Mar-29-16 12:23 PM
Kyrie seems like a grounded smart dude. All agenda shit aside.

He needs to holla at Steph Curry and double date with one of Ayesha's friends or Lebron and Savannah's friends... not JR Smith's friends.
12995634, If you think Ayesha doesn't have a trouble friend
Posted by Rjcc, Tue Mar-29-16 12:27 PM
I got a bridge to sell you

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at
12995648, Lol... no not THAT friend. The one they introduced to Seth.
Posted by TheRealBillyOcean, Tue Mar-29-16 12:35 PM
But got turned off when Seth spent the whole night staring at her toes.
12995632, yuuuuuup.
Posted by Rjcc, Tue Mar-29-16 12:27 PM
being young you shouldn't have to go through it, but you kinda have to, especially if you're dumb like I was.

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at
12995636, He's a basketball player, not a politician.
Posted by Numba_33, Tue Mar-29-16 12:27 PM
The only problem is that everything is up for public discourse, which I guess is a sign of the times since everyone and their mother thinks nothing's wrong with total disclosure to social media (and I'm a old head since I can't exactly rock with it) but he's free to date who he pleases. The only obligation dude has is to his teammates and the front office for the Cavs. He doesn't owe the public anything.

Then again, I am saying that as someone that's not a huge Irving fan outside of seeing him light up the basket when he's hot.
12995659, I'm not saying he owes me or anybody anything.
Posted by TheRealBillyOcean, Tue Mar-29-16 12:39 PM
But we do know about this dude's love life. Way more than we know about a lot of other players love lives. And that's the point. These broads got homie on front street.

I don't know wtf Dame Lillard is doing and don't care. I rarely see what Russ is doing. Don't know what Brad Beal is doing.

But Kyrie's shit stay everywhere. My Facebook feed, Twitter feed, every blog I'm on.
12995677, RE: I'm not saying he owes me or anybody anything.
Posted by Numba_33, Tue Mar-29-16 12:51 PM
>But we do know about this dude's love life. Way more than we
>know about a lot of other players love lives. And that's the
>point. These broads got homie on front street.
>
>I don't know wtf Dame Lillard is doing and don't care. I
>rarely see what Russ is doing. Don't know what Brad Beal is
>doing.
>
>But Kyrie's shit stay everywhere. My Facebook feed, Twitter
>feed, every blog I'm on.

I'm only concerned if it's a distraction when be plays ball. I don't agree with the attention that surrounds him, but I'm not his father or guardian, so I don't feel comfortable getting to up in arms about things. It probably helps (or hurts depending on your view on the matter) that I don't have a huge social media imprint, so the clowning Irving is getting doesn't mean much to me.
12995697, Bro... this is like the 3rd situation I've seen Kyrie caught up in.
Posted by TheRealBillyOcean, Tue Mar-29-16 01:06 PM
In the past 2 years maybe.

I just wish good things for that young dude. Not a championship good things. But good things.
12995765, RE: Bro... this is like the 3rd situation I've seen Kyrie caught up in.
Posted by Numba_33, Tue Mar-29-16 01:44 PM
>In the past 2 years maybe.
>
>I just wish good things for that young dude. Not a
>championship good things. But good things.

Seems callous on my part, but I just don't care about his personal life. I'm too cynical a dude to apply moral ethics to a top level basketball player, much less to someone I personally don't know. I don't wish him harm, and I like seeing him when he's hot like when he cooked San Antonio last year if memory serves me right, but I only care about him on the basketball court; nothing more, nothing less.
12995996, he messy too.
Posted by BrooklynWHAT, Tue Mar-29-16 05:27 PM
12995698, this poast
Posted by Shimmy, Tue Mar-29-16 01:06 PM
is all sorts of old man on the porch.
12995731, ...
Posted by SoWhat, Tue Mar-29-16 01:28 PM
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2014/04/15/article-2604925-041CFE2E000005DC-405_634x408.jpg
12995797, Lmao!
Posted by Hitokiri, Tue Mar-29-16 02:02 PM
12995806, with a PBR too ... LMAO
Posted by Amritsar, Tue Mar-29-16 02:09 PM
12995802, Stay off my grass, shimmy!!
Posted by Riot, Tue Mar-29-16 02:06 PM
*calls my elected official*
12995823, *rocks black dress socks with house shoes*
Posted by Marbles, Tue Mar-29-16 02:25 PM
12995830, Fuck is wrong with Kyrie Irving?
Posted by flipnile, Tue Mar-29-16 02:32 PM
He need to step-up the quality of women that he dates. No young multi-millionaire should be dealing with BS like this from some haggard-looking broad yo.
12996004, Since you went there....
Posted by Kira, Tue Mar-29-16 05:54 PM
>He need to step-up the quality of women that he dates. No
>young multi-millionaire should be dealing with BS like this
>from some haggard-looking broad yo.


I get the logic behind your highly misogynistic statements but do not agree. People date and fall in love with people they never thought they'd like all over the world. They dated and their relationship is in whatever status it is at the moment. The moral of the story here is everyone needs to chill and stay off social media with the petty. Ky is embarrassed but the nigga rich so I'm sure he'll find a way to get over this. Men have suffered worse fates.
12995842, Kyrie has dodged a bullet
Posted by Dr Claw, Tue Mar-29-16 02:39 PM
with Kobe retiring, the NBA needs a new "loves to hate" guy... let's hope this is the beginning of that