when you said she was

"highly self absorbed & dependent on her identity..."

"brash,inexperienced" living in a pseudo academic bubble.

>i was instructed to assume that what she has faced is
>obviously comparable to this guys specific struggle
>
>Perhaps she could have given some details & specifics & I
>certainly would have trusted that she was being true

She gave you all the details you need with this paragraph

"The hopeless fear Warmbier is now experiencing is my daily reality living in a country where white men like him are willfully oblivious to my suffering even as they are complicit in maintaining the power structures which ensure their supremacy at my expense. He is now an outsider at the mercy of a government unfazed by his cries for help."