for a first date.

examples:
"Take four minutes and tell you partner your life story in as much detail as possible."
" Is there something that you've dreamt of doing for a long time? Why haven't you done it?"
"What roles do love and affection play in your life?"
". If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet?"

you have to build up a certain level of trust before delving into this level of emotional intimacy.