what does that mean?

Right now he's interested in pussy and/or companionship. Show him exactly what else he should be interested in (besides the pussy and companionship).

"Get ready..for your blessing..."

But he knows he's not supposed to say that.

anything to do with like someone.

It can be like trying to explain why you like a song. Who knows you just do.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

i've been on both sides of it. there's no definitive answer.

perhaps its lust and he doesn't want to say for fear of offending you

(as stated: could be anything)

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My thoughts exactly


I can write an on the spot favorable annual HR review for just about any broad I'm Tryin to fuck

who can't make something up on the spot as to why they are interested?

and if you like him, don't fuck it up by asking too many questions or he will have a reason why he doesnt like you

most likely

out on the free giveaways. And if he's not already giving you stuff?...Moveon.org

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maybe that's it, maybe not. Could be dude is not good at articulating his feelings. Could be any number of reasons.


How long have y'all been seeing each other?

I would've prefered a simple "I don't know I just do"

What dude would say if he was in here^^^

Like others have said, it could mean a lot of things, but one
very IMPORTANT thing it means is that he's not very self-aware.
It's important that YOU know why he's interested, and until he figures
it out or you can see through him, you'd be trusting someone else's
confusion to move into anything with him.

>Like others have said, it could mean a lot of things, but
>one
>very IMPORTANT thing it means is that he's not very
>self-aware.
>It's important that YOU know why he's interested, and until he
>figures
>it out or you can see through him, you'd be trusting someone
>else's
>confusion to move into anything with him.


Is really the best case scenario.

I've had so many women ask similar questions, and the thing is...I just go off of a feel, or the cliche "connection, energy" more so than anything I can write a damn essay or Marvin Gaye type song about.

I've had a woman ask me, "name five things you like about me" and I literally responded, "is this a English paper? I just do, I don't have to verbalize it like that!"

It's actually easier for me to explain why I DON'T like a girl, versus why I do. Sometimes, it's really as simple as "I like your smile, and I can tolerate being around you for 8 hours without wanting to kick you out the house." It doesn't have to be "the tone of your voice when you are telling me about your life experiences," "the smell of your hair after it's been shampoo'd," "your level of intellect which is balanced by your willingness to learn more, mixed with your upbeat personality and unpredictable sense of humor" or any of that. If I'm into you, I just am.

not sure why but they need dudes to tell them what makes them special and half the time they use that shit against you at a later date.

"oh, but you said you loved my sense of humor. I joke your finances and now you got an attitude"

"I thought you wanted a strong woman?"

for some - it helps weed out the suckas lol

But at the same time, I rarely respond to that type question anyway.

about how much you like her..she wonders if you're really into her or just buying time

This is different from want/like it cause that's just an interest and probably doesn't have "deeper" meaning

thank you :-)

so, I turned to him and asked him what were three words he'd use to describe me

in the moment, he blew me all of the way off

told me I was being ridiculous

the next day or so, he sent me a text that said

"brilliant, beautiful, inspiring"

made my day

way off guard at the time. And it just feels like we're making up shit.

I swear I've said shit to women, just to get a good reaction, and I had to ask myself, "wait....did I really mean that, or was that game?" Either way can scare us, especially if we actually do mean it.

Why are you interested in me? LOL. Damn, what ever happened to just feelin a person's vibe? This some new 2016 line of questioning? Sheesh. *flips down Dwayne Wayne flip-up shades and walks away listening to Musiq -Just Friends*

likes me.I'll semi-jokingly say "oh yea? Why?"
the responses are usually interesting
One dude said because I am a strong woman like his mother was..thing is..with this dude I was purposefully slick-mouthed and demanding with him..he loved it

>One dude said because I am a strong woman like his mother was..thing is..with this dude I was purposefully slick-mouthed and demanding with him..he loved it

>thing is..with this dude I was purposefully slick-mouthed
>and demanding with him..he loved it

Fascinating. I want to ask some questions, but I don't want to pry too much.

before ..

does that make me crazy?

its not a question men should fear....if you're honest

just something I've never heard before. What though, if there is no honest answer. Dude just feels something between you and him...and he thinks it's genuine?

like she either looks fine or you really enjoy her company or some combo of both.

Now whether or not you wanna tell her the honest answer, is a different point.

I guess it's just my inner neo-soul coming out...like...you and a person both know when shit feels right. That question might rub me the wrong way...like I'm being interviewed for a position.

you already told her what you like about her right? like you would have volunteered it.

with a guy for a couple of dates?

I guess to me i wonder if it comes from a lack of self confidence. Bc i've definitely been asked before. If it is a girl i really really like i take it as her being flirty and possibly wanting an ego stroke.

If its a girl i'm not that interested in really, i take it as her lacking self confidence and i got to work hard to find something nice to say that won't bite me later.

Perhaps in my experience, she was just picking up on my lack of non-interest vibe. But what does asking what i like about you solve??

i need to know what brought you here...

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You served it up.

So you should have a clue why homie likes you.

for me - it's a " getting to know you" question.

how you think...
your intentions...

I've always been annoyed by the question bc I feel like the person is fishing for a compliment possibly due to a lack of s/e. I haven't seen it as you do.

can't see how you get to know someone by asking for a list of reasons why they like you.

ain't nobody asking for a list...

by way of example, if a lady says she finds you interesting
wouldn't you be curious why?

I'm more than the sum of my body....

nm

and hes spent all these years working on it to the point that it is not noticeable in most situations. but when you ask him what it is that he likes about you, there is a storm of words in his head, and he can feel the shame-inducing mish mash of sound thats about to come out. so he takes a second to compose - no i still go with potential murderer.

what's up?
your replies are always a pleasure :-)

i made my famous bean dip which has as an ingredient, jalapenos. i made the bean dip. i went to the bathroom after. then my sister said she was going to the store and so i said that i would ride along with her.

on the way to the store my dick began to burn. oh, did it burn.

Some people struggle to articulate their thoughts about certain things. My question to the person asking the question is..

Depending on the answer given, if he was able to give an answer, would said answer be a deal breaker or deal maker?

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