back in the 90s when I was going to Warriors games with my then-boyfriend, once during a half time, I was waiting outside the men's bathroom for my bf when he came out chuckling.

I asked what was funny in the men's bathroom

he said that, in that stadium, the urinal was a bigass trough in a circle so all the men stood around it peeing into the trough. There were a bunch of men -- like MEN, like 6 feet tall men, right? -- and this one little boy who was like four years old and wasn't tall enough to pee down into the trough, he was having to aim upwards to make it over the wall and into the trough and he wasn't doing very well and he was crying. My bf said that his dad glared at him and snapped, "Do you see anyone else in here crying?!?!!"

That was a watchword for us through the rest of the relationship. I still laugh when I think about it.

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All meetings end in separation
All acquisition ends in dispersion
All life ends in death
- The Buddha

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