12944276, I dunno - with physical pain there's a choice involved. Posted by Triptych, Wed Dec-16-15 06:38 AM
I don't think I'm crying if I break my leg. Emotional stuff sure.
I think the trick is to allow yourself space to cry for emotional reasons, but be able to tough through almost any pain if/when it's needed. That's the gendering part to me. A man persists through chaos.
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