there is too much at stake if the incompatibility raises its ugly head 3 months in when you find out she likes to steal your sht or take late night binges out with her homeboy she's known for years or he has a mild drug habit he's been hiding from you for 2-1/2 years and thats a pet peeve of yours. Sht you might find out youre the weird one and he or she cant stand you and now you in court divvying up assets on some bs 3 months later.

You need to know who you really living with before taking the plunge instead of the person you see on the weekends.