Inversely to tradition....I'd be scared as hell if my daughters married a guy before sin living. That whole notion of making a man 'too comfortable' is so near-sighted imo. The whole benefit of sin living is you find out what each other are like BEFORE making deeper commitments. Ie if he gets complacent about health and finances because he's 'comfortable'.....don't we wanna know that BEFORE marraige?

For sons....the shit is even more important. The financial risk of marraige skews heavily towards males. FAct is...they have alot more to lose in financial terms.