(Gives side eye)

Nigga, Do what u gotta do.

Lol. His reply

"I knew you were gonna say that"

Lol. Yeah.

I often have to explain to people the kind of couple we are. We dont like each other. We tolerate each other because we both believe keeping a family together is important. U do the crime u do the time.

He can miss me with that bored shit tho.

Find a hobby or a goal.

That is all.

This post isnt to slam him tho. He good peoples, but i dont give 2 fucks about entertaining anyone thats grown. Especially if im not being entertained by said person. Im not bored at all because i know how to entertain myself.

Anyways...i figured id post something that may possibly entertain yall. Lol. Ha ha.
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Makes me sad...


Yada yada...im not sad at all tho.


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>Makes me sad...
>
>
>Yada yada...im not sad at all tho.

which is sad

Him or a relationship at all?

>Him or a relationship at all?

its sad that she and her bf/husband/father of her child or whomever he is dont like each other

I dont know about that stuff you posted

We just arent in need of anything from each other for ourselves. The child needs us and we know that. And we need to make sure the child is ok. But there is nothing he can do for me personally and vice versa. We arent that kind of couple.



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> But there is nothing he can do for
>me personally and vice versa. We arent that kind of couple.
>

Most ppl want their partner to provide everything.

I have never wanted my partner to provide everything, but i do believe in reciprocity. This relationship is easy because no one is really giving anything.

Our focus is on our own interests and we both are interested in our child.
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if its like that, just coparent and be done with it.

And believe me plenty of folks try to tell us why we should get married, but there is no reason to. The idea is nice but its not practical. Not right now anyway.

In my mind lovey dovey shit would be required for marraige. Lol.
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I think its funny he tried to project his boredom on me like im supposed to fix that for him. I have no desire to fix anything like that for a grown man.

There is nothing i can do to entertain him. I dont think he wants me to entertain him. I think he wanted an out to go do something entertaining. So i gave it to him when i said, do what u gotta do.

His reply is what made me feel a way. If he knew i would say thay then he should have just dont that from the beginning.

Maybe im just past the whole game shit that relationships bring. To me relationships are like a job. U do what u gotta do for the result u want. All that lovey dovey shit is for the birds and young people. Lol
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I'm not even saying you should, just asking. You can't have lovey dovey all the time but you should sometimes.

bored or not, it's nothing that should be uttered so plainly.

I'm turned off that she's with someone like that.

though as I type l realizing these two jokers may just be made for each other.

... alls right in the world.

we should carry on.

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But he is steady and predictable and he cares about the important things that i care about, paying bills, being independent, and family.

If he acted like he wanted to entertain me then id reciprocate. But i aint gotta do that because he doesnt. Works for me.

I spend enough energy on other people so at least i can come home and chill. Lol.
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Or doing things alone or with my son.

Dude doesnt have fun, he is a worker.

Im cool with that.

I dont even look to him for fun
I look to him for work.
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His son? Yeah
Me, hell naw.


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As far as you are concerned, he is basically a provider for your son and nothing more?

That means a lot more than being all lovey dovey with someone. To me, when i made the decision to have a child i committed to making sure that child was nurtured in every way. His dad loves him and knows him better than any other man could. And i love seeing them bond. That shit warms my heart.

In a way, he loves me by loving him
Thats what i want. I dont need that other shit.
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I guess I just don't understand why you wouldn't want more?

And im not going to give more than im getting.

I am very fulfilled in my life from friends and family. Ive been in enough relationships to know that that lovey dovey shit shouldnt be expected. If u find it, you should appreciate it, but it isnt a requirement for me. Stability is.
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>I think its funny he tried to project his boredom on me like
>im supposed to fix that for him. I have no desire to fix
>anything like that for a grown man.
>
>There is nothing i can do to entertain him. I dont think he
>wants me to entertain him. I think he wanted an out to go do
>something entertaining. So i gave it to him when i said, do
>what u gotta do.
>
>His reply is what made me feel a way. If he knew i would say
>thay then he should have just dont that from the beginning.
>
>Maybe im just past the whole game shit that relationships
>bring. To me relationships are like a job. U do what u gotta
>do for the result u want. All that lovey dovey shit is for the
>birds and young people. Lol
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Together.

And he has a mouth so if he actually had a plan to do something outside that, he can say it specifically and not expect me to read his mind.

Im not going to read his mind. Im not even gonna try. That shit is exhausting. And ive gotten used to things being the way they are. Right now im good because im not emotionally attached, meaning regardless of what happens, ill be ok.
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sounds like it would do you both some good

>Together.
>
>And he has a mouth so if he actually had a plan to do
>something outside that, he can say it specifically and not
>expect me to read his mind.
>
>Im not going to read his mind. Im not even gonna try. That
>shit is exhausting. And ive gotten used to things being the
>way they are. Right now im good because im not emotionally
>attached, meaning regardless of what happens, ill be ok.
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Its not for him tho

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Im not bored at
>all because i know how to entertain myself.

That is one way i entertain myself.
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I still got it.
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the fulfillment of sexual needs...is there an understanding with that?

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https://youtu.be/DxSfQeCoFUM

Was michael singing but not in the video? They all look so much alike i cant tell if he was in the video, but i heard his voice on that verse.
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get better in that dept...but alot of times thats easier said than done.

We both are too stubborn for that.



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