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Topic subjectmen in relationships: are you honest about wanting to fuck other people?
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12902388, men in relationships: are you honest about wanting to fuck other people?
Posted by Kwesi, Wed Dec-31-69 07:00 PM
and are you okay with her pointing out people she/he would want to fuck?

just curious.

Poll question: men in relationships: are you honest about wanting to fuck other people?

Poll result (11 votes)
hell no. i dont know WHAT this nigga typing about! i only wanna fuck you, baby. (1 votes)Vote
kinda not really, i make it a joke. i don't think it'll really ever fly. (3 votes)Vote
yeah. i point em out. im a wild boy! (7 votes)Vote

  

12902394, Of course!
Posted by Atillah Moor, Fri Sep-25-15 04:31 PM
To myself
12902395, yes
Posted by MiracleRic, Fri Sep-25-15 04:33 PM
how else am i to get the 3way popping?
12902396, you must be out your damn mind...
Posted by Trinity444, Fri Sep-25-15 04:33 PM
12902418, to lie about it?
Posted by Kwesi, Fri Sep-25-15 05:01 PM
or to admit it?
12902426, pointing it out...
Posted by Trinity444, Fri Sep-25-15 05:16 PM
how does one begin the conversation?

12902430, personally
Posted by PG, Fri Sep-25-15 05:22 PM
people are soo much drama why would I ever want to chance that crap with anybody.. I'm fricking lucky as hell to have found the best one.

.. don't get me wrong.. in my younger days i'd've considered myself batshit for saying that.. but now that I'm an older, wiser and more gnarled fool.. nay I say nay. I'm more than good.
12902451, I like the word batshit...
Posted by Trinity444, Fri Sep-25-15 05:43 PM
is it okplayery word. I haven't heard it elsewhere

12902454, aww, honey.
Posted by Kwesi, Fri Sep-25-15 05:46 PM
12902476, **sucks teeth**
Posted by Trinity444, Fri Sep-25-15 06:18 PM
12902481, send me a pic.
Posted by Kwesi, Fri Sep-25-15 06:26 PM
12902422, lol
Posted by atruhead, Fri Sep-25-15 05:10 PM
12902480, can we be friends now?
Posted by Kwesi, Fri Sep-25-15 06:25 PM
12902440, I've had this convo.
Posted by tariqhu, Fri Sep-25-15 05:31 PM
it actually wasn't bad. didn't end how I was hoping, so I'll stay in my lane.

nobody was pissed off or screaming for divorce.
12902566, smooth move. how did you broach the subject?
Posted by Kwesi, Sat Sep-26-15 08:55 AM
12902568, started by asking about her recent fantasies,
Posted by tariqhu, Sat Sep-26-15 09:07 AM
celebrity crushes kinda thing. if that once in a lifetime chance to smang Morris Chestnut arrived, would she want to do it.

we both shared and eventually the convo came back to real life, everyday folks.

I think the key is I didn't really have an agenda of pushing to bang a particular chick. so it was an open convo to gauge plausibility.
12902569, Like someone looks good or I actually want an open relationship?
Posted by MEAT, Sat Sep-26-15 09:17 AM
12902574, not just look good. you want to fuck them.
Posted by Kwesi, Sat Sep-26-15 10:26 AM
the open relationship query is traditionally a death-knell

this about open-nees in your attraction to another woman.

an attraction that you'd admit to and utter the words about fucking that other person.

like, me-and-you know what the deal is.

every man know what the deal is ...

SHE even know what deal is.

this post is about whether you say it out loud or not.
12902576, she likes women....that should answer that question
Posted by tomjohn29, Sat Sep-26-15 10:32 AM
like if we are walking and someone looks good...ill ask her what you think...

she points out abnormal things (big booties and enhanced titties) than just straight up beauty

she will tell me about people that come through her job that look good
12902577, do you watch porn with your lady?
Posted by Kwesi, Sat Sep-26-15 10:34 AM
12902578, yes
Posted by tomjohn29, Sat Sep-26-15 10:35 AM
12902579, what keywords does she use?
Posted by Kwesi, Sat Sep-26-15 10:37 AM
12902580, we have sites
Posted by tomjohn29, Sat Sep-26-15 10:38 AM
heres one

https://makelovenotporn.tv/
12902582, cool site but it'll never fly. my lady don't do white porn :-/
Posted by Kwesi, Sat Sep-26-15 10:42 AM
12902584, lol plenty of people of color on the site
Posted by tomjohn29, Sat Sep-26-15 10:44 AM
12902630, my wife has always pointed out females she'd like to see me smang
Posted by seasoned vet, Sat Sep-26-15 03:58 PM
so this has never really been an issue

however, we've been together 15 years now
for the last oh maybe 5 years she has grown really possesive and i cant look, think, or say anything
she still does tho
its weird

honestly tho
im more into my wife sexually than anything
meaning, i may see another female that is attractive or have a body but i wouldnt want to have sex with them.
it looks good sure, but thats as far as it goes with me
12902684, Open relationship here
Posted by boyd, Sat Sep-26-15 08:15 PM
12902765, do you all live together? is it okay if she doesn't come home at night?
Posted by Kwesi, Sun Sep-27-15 09:30 AM
are there any rules involved?
12902687, if you can breath, you're prolly attracted to others...
Posted by eclipsedInI, Sat Sep-26-15 08:37 PM
why not be mature and talk about it?

12902921, im thinking to preserve the frail female ego.
Posted by Kwesi, Mon Sep-28-15 04:49 AM
12902928, blue...we def talk about people we find attractive but
Posted by gumz, Mon Sep-28-15 07:36 AM
don't go further than that...and by people i mean celebrities. not actual real people in the world we will ever see.