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Topic subjectMexican freshman from working class families
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12901849, Mexican freshman from working class families
Posted by TRENDone, Thu Sep-24-15 11:44 PM
>For some reason, people love to throw books at the problem.
>why not let the girls express their sexuality in a healthy
>way. Like take them to a belly dance, sexy dance, twerk class.
>Make them value their bodies versus having a book preach to
>them about pushing those feelings away.

I'm a man that works at a mainstream high school. None of my supes would give me the approval, even if I had a female coworker be the face of the program.
>
>Most of hte books mentioned are so academic and subjective.

It has to be academic cuz I work at a high school. I'm just trying to plant seeds.
>
>I would recommend Sister Soldjah's book No Disrespect and The
>Coldest Winter Ever. They are realistic and those characters
>reflected deep seated issues that lower class black women go
>through.
>
>Show them some movies about black female sexuality:
>Girl on the IRT
>Kids
>Pariah
>Bessie
>Girlfight
>
>They are showing nudes because it is stimulating, not because
>they don't love themselves.

See this is where women'a perspective helps. They told me boys kept on asking for them so they gave in. I'm like "you can always say know. U don't need another person to validate u." And being a man, I can't really comment on their looks or body.

I'm trying to do things that most men & even some women don't wanna do.