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12890669, If someone won't give you their facebook info in 2015 Posted by ndibs, Wed Dec-31-69 07:00 PM
Are they shady? And why do guys want it? To stalk your online behavior when you're not returning texts quickly enough?
Poll question: If someone won't give you their facebook info in 2015
Poll result (12 votes) | Yes | (1 votes) | Vote | No | (11 votes) | Vote |
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12890674, depends on how early they asking and why they asking Posted by Regina Rose, Tue Sep-01-15 06:01 PM
Dates 1-4? Nah Asking in general is a little odd to me seems like a thing you'd just "find out" if its something you check for
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12890684, Guys usually ask before date 1 Posted by ndibs, Tue Sep-01-15 06:19 PM
>Dates 1-4? Nah >Asking in general is a little odd to me seems like a thing >you'd just "find out" if its something you check for > >
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12890716, You're dating the wrong guys Posted by Abstract8, Tue Sep-01-15 07:51 PM
Most of us really don't care
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12890737, Most of those convos don't result in dates. Posted by ndibs, Tue Sep-01-15 08:52 PM
I'm not keen on giving out my full name and I see them as pic collectors, not ppl really keen on meeting.
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12890675, Facebook info? Like your name? Posted by Buddy_Gilapagos, Tue Sep-01-15 06:02 PM
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12890687, Yeah if you use your name. Posted by ndibs, Tue Sep-01-15 06:22 PM
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12890676, I want no part of seeing someone I'm dating's FB Feed Posted by J_Stew, Tue Sep-01-15 06:03 PM
all the thirst, possible dumb friends they have, I don't want to even know it exists. There isn't much positive that can come of it. I'm not jealous or nosey either, and I hate that whole mindset of "if you have nothing to hide, you should be ok with me invading your privacy".
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12890686, Fb isn't really private though Posted by ndibs, Tue Sep-01-15 06:21 PM
>all the thirst, possible dumb friends they have, I don't want >to even know it exists. There isn't much positive that can >come of it. I'm not jealous or nosey either, and I hate that >whole mindset of "if you have nothing to hide, you should be >ok with me invading your privacy".
I don't have time to be checking up on someone and I don't post anything there. But if you have a guys first last name it's not a bad idea to check and see if he's married.
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12892735, yup. People actually dated and had full lives b4 social media Posted by kayru99, Sun Sep-06-15 12:11 PM
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12890691, 'oh, i don't do facebook' - standard response. Posted by Kwesi, Tue Sep-01-15 06:28 PM
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12890692, Are ppl allowed other interests? Posted by ndibs, Tue Sep-01-15 06:31 PM
?
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12890710, I'm not on facebook and never have been. Posted by Moonlit_Force, Tue Sep-01-15 07:38 PM
Some folks assume I'm lying. I've had to sort them out for thinking that decision is indicative of anything more than a personal decision.
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12890696, Maybe they want to see pictures of you Posted by luminous, Tue Sep-01-15 06:44 PM
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12890799, yup... Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Sep-02-15 05:37 AM
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12890711, I'm not sure it means anything one way or the other. Posted by Starbaby Jones, Tue Sep-01-15 07:41 PM
It is a weird place to draw a line in the sand, but I could see someone having their reasons. I been with the same person for 7 years and we're friends on FB, but we're not listed as being in a relationship. So, I guess that's not that much more of a stretch.
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12890714, people under 40 still use facebook? Posted by tingum, Tue Sep-01-15 07:48 PM
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12890730, The last few ppl who asked were under 30 Posted by ndibs, Tue Sep-01-15 08:28 PM
I'm on Instagram, but not snapchat, whatsapp etc.
I have a facebook profile, one or two pictures, no wall, I check a few times a month.
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12890731, whats the youngest you date? Posted by Kwesi, Tue Sep-01-15 08:34 PM
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12890733, I'm 33. Talking to a couple 28 year olds this summer. Posted by ndibs, Tue Sep-01-15 08:38 PM
Texting one I went out with a few weeks ago tonight.
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12890744, why haven't you given up on younger men yet? Posted by Kwesi, Tue Sep-01-15 09:13 PM
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12890748, Why should I? Posted by ndibs, Tue Sep-01-15 09:25 PM
It's the older ones that have given me trouble or just make no sense to date bc they have a ton of baggage.
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12890725, why would i give you my facebook? Posted by tomjohn29, Tue Sep-01-15 08:13 PM
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12890732, Better question might be why not? Posted by ndibs, Tue Sep-01-15 08:36 PM
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12890742, I don't do Facebook. Posted by Shaun Tha Don, Tue Sep-01-15 09:05 PM
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12890764, I had a chick get "mad" because I refused to add her. Posted by Teknontheou, Tue Sep-01-15 10:24 PM
Mainly I don't like adding women I just started talking to because if it goes south, I don't want to have to be looking at her pictures of herslef looking all good in teh Bahamas, or with her next dude. It's generally better to keep that out of my head and away from my eyes. I told her that, too, and she still thinks I'm "hiding" something.
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12890835, adding someone isn't permanent... Posted by ndibs, Wed Sep-02-15 08:46 AM
you can always unfriend them or just add them and unfollow their posts. so these aren't particulary good reasons to not add someone you just met.
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12890852, I've only ever defriended maybe 3 people in the 11 years I've been Posted by Teknontheou, Wed Sep-02-15 09:21 AM
on FB. I generally can't bring myself to do that - it feels weird. It's easier for me to not add someone in the first place.
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12890854, you weird bruh... Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Sep-02-15 09:30 AM
I have a fb but I rarely post. I add people,all the time and think nothing of it.
I have all types of old flames on there too. No one who would get messy but I literally don't give a shit because I don't use it that often.
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12890824, depends on why you're explicitly requesting facebook info Posted by illegal, Wed Sep-02-15 08:12 AM
like, that sounds kinda weird too
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12890843, Do people really *ask* people for their facebook info? If its somebody... Posted by ThaTruth, Wed Sep-02-15 08:58 AM
I'm really interested I'll just find out your name and stalk your page and add you, if you don't accept oh well.
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12890897, this. you *find* people on facebook...not *ask and insist* Posted by illegal, Wed Sep-02-15 10:14 AM
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12890998, you know what? you right... Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Sep-02-15 12:11 PM
I have been asked if I'm on facebook tho in person...
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12890846, 'i got a FB but i haven't touched it in yrs' is what you'll get from me Posted by BigJazz, Wed Sep-02-15 09:05 AM
*** I'm tryna be better off, not better than...
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12890869, I don't ask for anyone's facebook Posted by MizClayton, Wed Sep-02-15 09:44 AM
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12890871, wheres the so glad I'm not single option? Posted by Damali, Wed Sep-02-15 09:46 AM
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12890898, ^ Posted by gumz, Wed Sep-02-15 10:15 AM
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12891001, LMAO.. my wife and I say this all the time Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Sep-02-15 12:13 PM
anytime we talk to single friends we always come home and say "you know we are in this for the long haul cause it's a mes out in them streets"
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12891020, ^^^^^^ Posted by micMajestic, Wed Sep-02-15 12:36 PM
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12891014, I don't see how giving out my Facebook would help me in any way Posted by flipnile, Wed Sep-02-15 12:30 PM
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12891017, two things..... Posted by double negative, Wed Sep-02-15 12:32 PM
1. people ask? this is the information age, you can find ANYBODY
2. its hard out there for women, I get it. Hell, some people I know personally have a totally walled off facebook pressence because they dont want to be found
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12892034, well they can call you on their now.... Posted by jeanlouis61, Thu Sep-03-15 10:02 PM
if u rock wifi/large data like that. if i were dating, i would give facebook first and say that i was available to call through there......that way if i dont want to talk to you anymore, cut u from friends list
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12892723, for what it's worth it helps to have a somewhat common name Posted by j., Sun Sep-06-15 11:18 AM
as someone else pointed out, I only add family/friends/people I've known from work, not just any ol bird I just met told a girl I don't do fb, she doesn't believe me she puts my name in the fb search bar, like 20 dudes popped up I'm with her as she's scrolling down, going nope, not me she had to charge it to the game
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12892726, nah. i think facebook is the most 'personal' of all the social Posted by SHAstayhighalways, Sun Sep-06-15 11:20 AM
media. i understand people not wanting to give that out all willy nilly.
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13373016, RE: If someone won't give you their facebook info in 2015 Posted by naame, Thu Mar-12-20 03:52 PM
America has imported more warlord theocracy from Afghanistan than it has exported democracy.
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13373019, RE: If someone won't give you their facebook info in 2015 Posted by PG, Thu Mar-12-20 03:59 PM
https://media0.giphy.com/media/URoLoCo1s9jm8/giphy.gif
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13373968, RE: If someone won't give you their facebook info in 2015 Posted by The_Orange_Ninja_Turtle, Wed Mar-18-20 08:53 AM
😂
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13373202, I Don't Even Like Giving Employers my LinkedIn Posted by Thee Phantom, Fri Mar-13-20 02:22 PM
Take this manicured resume. I don't need you searching my activity and seeing what articles or posts I clicked Like on before we interview.
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13373204, who upped this and why? Posted by hardware, Fri Mar-13-20 02:27 PM
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13373205, man I kinda miss ndibs Posted by Amritsar, Fri Mar-13-20 02:31 PM
or really any women on here in general LOL
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