And years without being asked out on a second date AND that second date happening. So not quite. I have done experiments where I reply to every guy on match and okcupid for several months even if he's not my type or whatever and I will only go on maybe 3-4 dates a year. Despite talking to 30 guys at a time and investing hours a day. I've gone out with 1 out of 3 guys who asked me out irl in the last 7 years . One I rejected didn't speak english so he sent his sister over to talk to me. The other was a registered sex offender. Maybe other women have an endless supply of suitors. I do not.