>it seems like youre placing all the weight of that persons
>choices/decisions as the reason why they are single.
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>im saying there are a variety of factors that lead up to a
>person being single, choices/decisions being one of those
>factors.
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I am saying that we, as adults, have choices. That is a fact. I am also saying that men and women are not being totally honest when it comes to these topics. The bottom line is that it doesn't matter why one is single. Everyone has a reason why they are single, married, divorced, in a monogamous or polygamous relationship, etc.

But, I do hope one day you will understand that being single is a choice that should be embraced, if you really care about your overall well being. It is healthy to be single and grow from within that way when a person who fits your mold comes into your life, then you will be ready to receive him and appreciate him for who he is, not what you want or expect him to be. Same can be said from that man's side as well.