12888673, Honestly it's just different nowadays Posted by Mahogany, Thu Aug-27-15 05:25 PM
I'm sure that may be the case for some people, but a lot of these guys out here are very guarded. They won't even give you the opportunity to support them because they really dont want to share what it is that they have going on in their life...guys out here have a lot of baggage and use being a player or whatever to cover it up.
Dating in general is way different than it used to be. A lot of dudes out here date like teenagers lol not even trying to bash men or anything, but I can't even tell u how many dudes in the last few months I've heard say that they really don't see the point in being in a relationship. They don't like to really get close to anyone...and when they do they kinda freak out at the idea of letting go of all the potentials they haven't even met yet. I was just reading an article about this the other day that blamed a lot of this behavior on dating sites and social media etc.
I was just talking to a friend about this the other day telling him not be the old man in the club and I could literally see the internal struggle he had going on lol smh. I think a lot of guys assume that marriage means a shitload of responsibilities and that his whole life will have to change (and that's true for a lot of folks), but at the same time I know a ridiculous amount of women that ain't even looking for it to be all that and wouldn't have an issue with being a supportive mate. Guys say they want that but a lot of them will have it and not even know what to do with a woman like that
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