A lot or black men aren't marriage material because they can't keep or hold the sort of jobs necessary to support a family because they never finished hs or have criminal records.

It just a reality. I'm not saying these guys are bad, but they're not trying to marry anyone and that's a reality.

It's also a reality that MOST black women 51% with college degrees marry a guy without a degree. Still despite the norm being to consider guys with less education 60% of black women 25-35 with degrees are unmarried.

http://www.diversityinc.com/news/college-educated-black-women-least-likely-to-have-a-well-educated-spouse-2/

Apparently black women are well aware of the realities and not waiting for a Prince Charming, and black men are the ones being selective and marrying up.