12887959, all this is true. marriage is not normalized.
Posted by ndibs, Wed Aug-26-15 07:24 PM
there's no social more for being married if you're a black man.
and being a weekend dad, having kids with random women and leaving them to do most of the work is completely acceptable, but still very much looked down on in white america.
it's like you're a failure if you're white and doing that.
you as a woman can be open to dating all kinds of guys, that doesn't mean his dream is going to be married to you and having to do the daily work of being in a marriage and raising kids...
esp when almost every guy already has a kid or two they're paying child support for by age 25-30 and is satisfied with the number of kids they have...
prison record of not. us having high standards isn't what's keeping us single.
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