connected in the academic community in our area which is pretty strong...we have several hbcus and top notch pwis in the area.. as a result, she attends alot of high profile type functions and events...some are dress up affairs etc. im sure at a minimum she would want a guy who could mix with that type of crowd and feel comfortable mingling and networking etc. i dont think its an unreasonable request nor a bad reflection on her if her desire of having a man that can roll in those types of environments happens to exclude some ppl

>talking about how men need to accept that there's ALWAYS
>women who are out of their league. They literally said that
>except for the President, EVERY man has thousands of women who
>are out of their league, and that they need to act
>accordingly.
>
>They said "men feel entitled to think they can holler at ANY
>woman, as if they are qualified enough for them." One even
>said "a guy who paints the White House will say 'damn
>Michelle, you think you too good just because you live in
>there, huh?'"
>
>When I challenged them, and basically said that it reeks of
>low self esteem for a man to assume a woman is better than
>him, they didn't agree at all. They wouldn't specify what
>makes a woman out of a man's league, but said it's a combo of
>culture, education, career, and several other things.