>Being that I'm 30, Black, single, and have so many
>interconnected circles of like minded men and women...these
>debates and discussions come up all the time. Even when I'm
>dating a woman, it comes up in regards to why they're single,
>or why their friends/cousins are single.
>
>It's not about my personal options, but just about the topic
>itself whenever it comes up.

alot. Male or female, justifiable or not. It's just not healthy for me, but again to each their own. And do you really ask women "why are you single?". Seems like a really awkward question.
I guess I'll just chalk it up to different social circles then. I guess I've never had an all Black with a capital B social circle, there were always Latins, Caribbeans & Africans in the mix. And people who don't have much in common with me might find me difficult to get along with, maybe that has helped me in some ways.


Let my love slide in and never slip out