who raised their kids in a white suburb, had them go to white schools, and hang out with their white neighbors are so fucking surprised when their kid has difficulties with racial identity.

Like if you're just jumping ship I got you, go about you business, but if you're even ostensibly trying to identify as black then you owe your kids some cultural investment.


"All the world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players:
They have their exits and their entrances;
And one man in his time plays many parts..." -The Bard